How would I know if this guy was trying to get me pregnant or was he just overly excited?

So, just this past month or weeks back in July, I had sex with this guy. And this is old, so I'm just now bringing this up to y'all. Yes out with the old and in with the new. But anyways moving on. So, as soon as I was to reach my O, he finished before me. And also, finish inside of me, smh. And this man knows that I am not on any BC pills or anything. But it also seems like he has an history with injaculating inside of a female. But those girls that he has mentioned to me about, they are on birth control. And again, I am not. And from my last encounter with him, when he did his stuff. I asked him where did he come at So I said, did you just cum inside of me. And he said, yea. Then told me to go pee but also said, this his cum wasn't going to stay inside of me. So I said, seriously are you trying to get me pregnant or something. Then he said in a low tone... No. Then told me to go pee again. First and foremost I just want to clear something up he is in no position to bring a kid in this world. And I am definitely not ready for the kid Nor raise to a child with him. Like even in that moment, he wasn't freaking out, or saying stuff like oh need to get a plan B kit. Like you know most guys know that they fucked up. It is a total different reaction especially if the guy isn't trying to have any kids any time soon. And there is such thing as call a careless behavior. But anyways, what do you guys think he his goal was, when he finish in me?
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  • No idea, but likely, in the moment, he had zero thoughts of responsibility or anything other than the pleasure he was feeling. But afterwards, when he still felt no responsibility, that just tells me that he just "assumes" that you'll deal with whatever consequences there might be and that, no matter how it turns out, it won't be his problem. And, while certainly not all guys have this attitude, it's not exactly rare either.

    Which is why I don't understand how women will let a guy bang her without a condom if she's not on BC - whether it's a boyfriend or a friends with benefits or a ONS. It's literally like playing Russian Roulette, and sooner or later, you're going to lose, and if you've chosen these guys who are completely indifferent to a pregnancy or it's impact on you, then you are making incredibly foolish and short-sided decisions, and are likely going to pay a heavy price sooner or later for those choices.

    As unfair as it may be, you know full well that the consequences of a pregnancy are going to impact you, as a woman, far FAR more than it will impact the guy - ESPECIALLY if he's completely indifferent - so it's YOUR responsibility to ensure that a pregnancy doesn't happen, which means you either need to make rules for guys you are sleeping with (and you must then enforce those rules), or you need to not sleep with them. And you should just assume by default that the guy will not be interested in helping you in any way if you do get pregnant, because too often, that's exactly how it goes.

    • Like he knew and knows that I am not on any BC. And tbh, we talked about this stuff like last year. He didn't want to use a condom so I gave him the benefit of the doubt but also set some rules and told him do not come inside of me. And I said, if I let you into onto me raw, we both have to be responsible. I said, if you feel that you are about to burst open. Then pull that bitch out, or bite me or something. Or grab yourself and your cock and and yank that shit out. He cock isn't really that big, and he can never find the right size condoms. But that's never an excuse. But he only cum inside of me, like last year and once this year. Still not safe, so he usually do pretty good with pulling out. But the last time, he just let it all in. Smh, and tbh, I don't think he would have told me. But something told me to ask him, I said did you cum already. And he said, yea. And I said where, and said is that from you. And he said, it's from the us both... I think. So I also asked and said, where did you like come. And he didn't say anything, so I said: did you cum inside of me. And he said it in a low tone, but was like yea I. Then I said, uhm. I said, you do know that I am not on any special medications, right? And I said are you trying to get to get me pregnant. And he said. No. Then said, for me to go pee. Like he wasn't even tripping. So, I have a thing or two up my sleeve for him. And again babies are blessings: but he's definitely not in a position to bring a kid in this world. And nor am I. But.. Since he wanted to act up. Imma show his butt.

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  • Well you see, he probably likes the feeling of cumming inside pussy, cause all the other females have been on birth control, he probably got them to. Like he might not wanna cum in anywhere else. And maybr if you did get pregnant he'd try to get you to abort, and if all else fails. Run away🤔

    • But again, he knows that I am NOT on BC. And even from are last encounter he just kept telling me to go pee. Like he wasn't tripping, like he was just chilling after that. He didn't even revive me even take the morning after pill the next day and to be honest I don't even know if he would have told me that he came inside of me. So I'm going to teach him a little life lesson here. I'm going to prank him like as if I am. Just to see his reaction.

    • Well maybe he dumb, considering he thinks females pee from the pussy

    • How would you describe this type of behavior between him and I? ↗ can you also answer that. And yeah, he is off mentally.

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  • He did what felt good for him in the moment and didn’t particularly care that you could be pregnant. Some guys only selfishly care about themselves and their own pleasure and have a history of these kind of “accidents” and getting girls pregnant. Before I was on birth control, sex was always an adventure because guys often didn’t want to use condoms. Some were careful about pulling out and others would shoot their stuff inside me and nonchalantly shrug their shoulders about it afterwards. The lesson is you can’t really trust some guys. When they’re aroused and inside you, the big head shuts down and the little head makes the decisions.

    • Yes girl OMG!! that is exactly what he did afterwards, then turnt around and started watching tv, and said for me to go pee. And your right, they get caught up in the emotion and the feeling. But again, he knew and knows that I am not on any PC. And tbh, I don't think he would have told me. But something told me to ask him, I said did you cum already. And he said, yea. And I said where, and said is that from you. And he said, it's from the us both... I think. So I also asked and said, where did you like come. And he didn't say anything, so I said: did you cum inside of me. And he said it in a low tone, but was like yea I. Then I said, uhm. I said, you do know that I am not on any special medications, right? And I said are you trying to get to get me pregnant. And he said. No. Then said, for me to go pee. Like he wasn't even tripping. So, I have a thing or two up my sleeve for him. And again babies are blessings: but he's definitely not in a position to bring a kid in this world. And nor am I. But.. Since he wanted to act up. Imma show him. Hehe

    • Tell him your period is late and you need some money to get a pregnancy test. Then see how much he cares. Lol

  • He wanted to finish inside you cause it feels so good for the guy (and for you). He did NOT wanna get you pregnant. Just wasn’t bright enough to think of Plan B. All he could remember was that sometimes the guy’s cum slides right out when you pee right after.

    • I know this stuff is old now. But it's crazy because lol he wouldn't have even told me that he did, if I didn't ask. But I have a good prank on him. Hehe.

    • Go for it girl! 😂

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  • I have no idea what his goal was, but if you are going to have sex and don't want to get pregnant, then I strongly suggest that one or both of you use some type of birth control. Whether accidental or intentional, $hit happens.

    • Like all he kept saying was to go pee. Peeing doesn't prevent a woman getting from getting pregnant. It washes out any fluid on a surface of a woman's vagina and can prevent STDs from spreading, or URLs. And tbh, if I didn't ask where he cum. He wouldn't have told me. He didn't even tell me to go get Plan B, like he was chilling after that. And when I asked him was he trying to get me pregnant no. But wasn't making no real action to prevent it. Then months later or week later, I'm pregnant and he wants to be in denial. Smh

    • That guy sounds like a real dope. I hope you've cut him out of your life.

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  • Sounds like he didn't care what happens.

  • so you had a hookup

  • Maybe or he's just that slow

    • Slow

    • Slow like retarded lol sorry

    • Don't need to be sorry. His mental mine isn't right

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