Long story short I found out my wife had a threesome with 2 other men. This was before she met me. I confronted her and she admitted it. I know I shouldn’t be hurt by it because she didn’t even know I existed at the time. I know it’s my insecurities but I can’t help how I feel. It bothers me seeing her in that way. She was on a pedestal and now she’s not. Would anyone else be bothered or am I crazy?
I get it bothers you that is completely normal and even taking her off the pedestal is fine.. but she is your wife.. do you still love her after knowing what she was like before you? If you do you just got to accept it..
This guy I was SO IN LOVE with I found out he slept with a few prostitutes before we started seeing each other I cried for 2 days lol It hurt so much finding that out and he treated me like a bad guy for caring about it.. but I eventually accepted it and got over it.. but after 8 months we ended up not dating or even sleeping together and that was probably one of the reasons why...
if it's before you met her how is it your concern at all?
Your just crazy,
My wife had sex with our whole school. And even gave all my friends blowjobs.
In the past before she knew i existed.
She was known for getting around before we started dating.
I still hold her in high esteem and even married her knowing this. What she did before me I can’t hold against her.
I think your being insecure and immature about it
It's kind of like if you found out about some history she had like a high body count. Lots of women think it's no one's business but it does say something about what kind of person he or she is. Would a women be bothered if she found out the guy was a male prostitute before he met her? Or the other way around?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would probably be bothered by that. How did it come to your attention?
Went on a double date with her best friend and her husband. Her best friend got completely wasted and started talking about it
Wow! How awful! Does she know how much this knowledge bothers you? Does she think you're over-reacting?
I’d be ok with it, it was the past…I’d then ask her if she’d want to try again
Wouldn't bother me. I've done threesomes and I'd definitely be ok if they have as well. Hell, we could have a threesome together if they want.
You're crazy.
She "admitted"? Wrong word. She did nothing wrong.
You need to get past your insecurities and damn quick. Her past is her past. And not relevant to your manhood or your present and future.
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Yep. You're crazy asker. Would you date me if you knew I slept with a girl? Why or why not would that matter? Just curious to hear the answer.
It was before you met. Move on
bro it was literally before she met you calm down
This. Exactly. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@SnowedIn hahaha
It was her choice in the past. I'd just try to forget it
Would mean she lied so that would be divorce
I'd ask if she were open to trying with me.
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