Girls, how would you feel if you’re husband broke up with you through a text message?

[Anonymous]

Okay I am debating leaving my wife. She had sex with 25 guys before me and I lost my virginity to her at 20. I have only had sexually with her and I don’t want to feel like a giant loser and go the rest of my life having only had sex with one woman. She also wants kids which I do want but I also feel like I can’t go the rest of my life regretting not having sex with a 100 different women. She loves me a lot and I know if I break up with her in person she will have a huge crying and screaming meltdown so I really don’t want to have to deal with that and just think it is best if I dump her via text message. What do you girls think about this. I also am not sure about leaving her and I may or may not leave her but I think if I do leave her that this is the best option to go about leaving her.

[Aerissa_Jade]

This is exactly why, when a man says the previous past partners won't matter to him, sooner or later it seems to. I've had relationships end when he said it doesn't matter, but then it eats away at him for being the underdog and things end because he is cheating, trying to balance things out from his point of view.

This is also why I say, people should try to be as close to the same number as possible, because otherwise it bugs them until the relationship is in trouble, as you've clearly shown yours is.

I would hope you'd be happy if you had 25 partners, to match her (before you married her.) Yet you claim you want a hundred different women now, why soo many?

You should tell her in person, be honest and tell her why, even if it is you handing her divorce papers... at least she'll know why your leaving her and that she will be better off without you.

Using text is your way to avoid things that are going to happen anyways, no matter how you do it.

Just free her to move on and find someone else, stop wasting her time, especially if she wants kids.

If someone did it mean to me by text, I'd go for him for as much money as possible, in Alimony and whatever, I'd try to ruin his life BUT if he told me that its cause I have 25 times the number of partners as him, then I'd be like... okay get the F out of here, we are done but I wouldn't try to ruin his life. It would tell me next time, find a man who is closer to me and don't go for a virgin.

[SecretsofKB]

Let me just lay it out for you...

This is a shitty thing to do to anyone, especially the one you married. On top of that, the reason for this incredibly shitty act is also a very shitty and cowardly thing.

And the cherry to it all... you want to leave her so you can have sex with 100 other women... Leaving your wife for that will be something you regret the rest of your life.

So I honestly hope you leave your wife. That way she has a chance to see who you really are and go find someone that will respect her.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Oh please be joking. You MUST be a huge troll with this question

[whereismyjohnny]

Talk to her in person. Breaking up with someone over text is an ass move.

[acooke-13]

Don't leave your wife to sleep around, that would make you a loser and very, very regretful.

[Anonymous]

I don't text, so I wouldn't have read it anyway.