Guys, How would you feel if your girlfriend was giving you sex only once a month?

[BackAgain602]

I already know what you guys would do: leave😂. I don't blame you.
But what would go through your mind? Would you assume she's cheating?

I ask this because I only have sex with my boyfriend once a month. Sometimes 3 at the most. No, I'm not cheating. I've never done that. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years. I'm starting to wonder if something is wrong with me, since I don't really crave sex often at all.🤷‍♀️

[Valnac]

I would recommend you go see your doctor first, and if that didn’t work, probably recommend you get counseling.

[BackAgain602]

I've thought about counseling...🧐 Thanks for your post.

[Valnac]

Good Luck.

[Anonymous]

Are you on any Rx medicine?

[BackAgain602]

Antidepressants and a rescue inhaler

[Opinion Owner]

The antidepressant could be the cause. Google it and look at sexual side effects. You can also talk to your Dr. about taking medication vacations so that you can have an enjoyable sex life again

[MrOracle]

As a man, it's my job to keep my girl in the mood, and it's something I work on every day when I'm in a relationship. And, consequently, I've never had a girl with the problem you're having. I keep her mind going from the morning until bedtime, even if I can't be there, so when I am there, she's always ready to go.

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever consulted your GYN about your low libido? That can be a symptom of a physical problem that is treatable.

[Mark-IV]

yes its very bizarre, in some societies, its a valid reason for divorce if a wife was unable to satisfy her husband at all, once a month is very low, your man must be starving for sex the poor bastard

[JackSmy]

Why? Is he a dickhead, and treating her badly? Does he not know how to love a Lady?
When I am with a Lady, it is because I really care, and think I love her, and I'm trying to be closer, and see if we are a good match!
EVERY DAY, I am holding her close, and kissing, and telling her how much I love being with her, and just being so close!
People are different, and some of us don't just rush in and have sex like Rabbits!!!
I choose ones, and we go slowly, and get to know each other, before being intimate.
A better way, I think, as it creates TRUST, and that is really important to me, in a relationship!
When we get to intimacy, and sex, it is more QUALITY, than frequency!
Most of the best times, together, are just being close, and doing 'whatever' things, going here or there, and just being close, touching, holding hands, and just, spontaneous soft kisses, Just BECAUSE!! LOL!!

[normalice]

I would assume she's not really into me.

[Wisdom-Strength-Love]

as long as she puttin effort like we do on the football team - 2 a days

nah jk, id be grateful just getting it. Guys need to understand the luxery of it

[slatyb]

Wouldn't work for me.

[Citizenkirk]

I would assume she has good reason, since a woman I am intimate with sexually, is a partner I communicate with openly. If she is keeping things from me, than my reproductive equipment is off limits too her.

[Dargil]

It is OK that your libido is low. But if you care for him, you will need to devise a strategy to keep him fulfilled sexually even when you are not in the mood.
*Blowjobs.
*Handjobs.
*Male directed toys.
*Anal play.

[justsimpleguy]

Nothing wrong with you. You can be intimate in other ways. You can have sex and still be unhappy.