How would you feel if your partner has seen a friend naked before meeting you?

[Anonymous]

Like, they were sending nudes back and forth to each other. But, they stopped at some point and hadn’t done it since then.

[Sjoerd85]

At home I am always naked, and I regularly go to the sauna where also everyone walks around naked. To me, being feels far more comfortable compared to wearing clothing, and therefore I would prefer it if everyone just looks at it as perfectly normal (as in: equally normal as wearing clothing, just another personal choice).
For this reason, I don't see any problem with people seeing each other naked.

I also would not have any problem with it if my wife had known a friend of mine romantically / sexually before meeting me; that's all in the past.

[BoopBoopBeep]

My friend or their friend? The former, don't care, the latter, curiosity has me wandering about that backstory.

[Red-Blaze]

No issue at all, I dont excpect pepole to have no past with anyone just becouse we are togeder, and if they stop and not doing it, its really not an issue

[Katie1964]

Its in the past. Besides, most of our friends have seen us nude anyway.

[matchrestore]

It wouldn't bother me.

[erandal]

A friend of his? That's not even worth thinking about. I don't care.

[ushagomez]

Absolutely fine. Why would there be any concern about that?

[summiter]

It would not bother me at all. After all it is just a naked body. What are your thoughts?

[Asker]

A lot of people care because they don’t know whether their partner is still sending nudes to said friend.

[Asker]

It’s a trust thing.

[rachel776]

i think a lot of guys have seen a lot of girls naked before i meet them

[SnowedIn]

Doesn't bother me. Probably wouldn't even think about it. Past is past.

[richardcory]

Doesn't bother me. I date a girl who had gone out with and presumably slept with one of my friends.

[Laura131]

I'm not looking in someone's past when it comes to that so it wouldn't bother me.

[soe11]

Pretty normal for us.

[loveslongnails]

Seriously? Why would a rational person give a shit if you've another person nude BEFORE you even met them and became partners? Huh?

[Asker]

You would be surprised on how many people care.

[Asker]

Like, your partner make think you’re still sending nudes to said friend.

[loveslongnails]

I wouldn't be surprised actually, because the stipulation is "a rational person" - at least on that subject!!

[loveslongnails]

You stipulated they had stopped sending nudes. If your partner remains suspicious after you've said you stopped, that's your partner's personal problem and insecurity. I wouldn't care what happened about that before we became partners, but I WOULD care if my partner didn't trust my word and was being all suspicious about it.

[Asker]

That makes sense.

[jahaims]

Should of told me prior to starting a relationship

[KostasKouvalis]

A friend of MINE? I probably wouldn't care as long as she thinks MY body is hotter😂

[dudeinohio]

No problem

[Kelly6]

past is past, won't judge what they did back

[balyai]

That friend shouldn't be a friend

[Rohaan2020]

If it was before we were together then i’d be ok withbit

[krin_m]

Not an issue at all.

[MasterKS]

Normal. take it normal.

[dinojames22]

No issues