How Would You Feel If Your Partner, Who Had Sex With People Before Meeting You, Decided To Withhold Sex From You Until Marriage?

[Anonymous]

So, here is a question. Imagine you met a partner, and everything seems right about that person. However, your partner tells you, "I am abstinent and I am not having sex until marriage."

However, your partner also tells you that while they have had sex with people before they met you, they decided that due to past relationships and situationships, they now wants to wait until marriage for sex.

How would you react? While it's that person's body and their choice, would you feel "cheated" or "less than" because they are making you wait, while they didn't make the other people before you wait?

[Anonymous]

I've talked to tons of women and men online, and they say marriage is a game-changer.
It's kind of like a switch that is either on or off. I realize that in your scenario, they aren't married, yet, but her switch is now in the off position.

I think it's a mental thing, and it's been ingrained in her from social conditioning.

One guy told me that he married the "town pump". At some time during their marriage, he tried to get her to do a threesome with her and his friend, and she refused. He tried many times to get her to do it, but she refused.

I'm not talking about a naughty girl or a slut, this was the fucking town pump! lol

She told her fiance/husband that she did gangbangs in her teens.

I've never been married, so I had no advice for him. I have no clue how this switch works, but apparently, it works. And in your scenario, she had her switch turned off.

[Aimée__LJ]

Good for them but Im not sticking around for that. Sex is a very important part of a relationship.

[DonkeyDan]

Well I can't be with someone who isn't prepared to have sex until marriage, so it's a none starter for me anyway regardless of her past. Also I'm not looking to get married again, so she'd have a really long wait.

[Berethor]

Sounds like the worse of both worlds, she likely not worth the waiting.

[slatyb]

That would never happen because we wouldn't be dating.

[exitseven]

If I was a virgin I think it would really bother me.

[rabbitzzz]

The marriage would not happen.

[DiegoO]

I wouldn't tolerate that BS at this height. She would have to enjoy being single again.

[jahaims]

Wouldn't be with them

[Twalli]

Fact is, I wouldn't be ccx with thrm if we're not having sex before marriage, I wouldn't even propose before we've started having sex.

[Anonymous]

That's quite a manipulative strategy she came up with.
"Hmm..🤔 All the guys I fuck won't marry me, so you're not getting this pussy until I get a ring."
Sorry, I don't like women who use sex as a currency, I would leave her.

[Anonymous]

Toss her to the curb.
Any female who will give up ass for “chad” but make you wait is not worth shit.