How would you guide a virgin through the process?

[Loveisgirthy]

[Dargil]

I have been with two virgins. With the first, I was a total klutz. I was so horny, I just barged straight in and she bled a little. I did not give her a fond memory.

For the second, I had introspected and came up with a routine that I believed would give a better outcome. We had talked in advance about having sex and a little hand research had told me she was quite snug and I was going to have to be easy on her. It seemed Missionary was the best position and we used that.

I had already figured out that I would have to go in with a series of very short pushes. So we came up a couple of simple coaching words to help this out. When I started, we had agreed that when she said: "OK!", that push was beginning to pinch and I should ease back. When she whispered a softer "ok", that meant I could try again. It took several tries and during the last one, I sort of popped in like getting your head through the collar of a t-shirt. That one pinched but she did not stop me.

One thing to consider is don't pull out all the way once you get in. You will have to go through an abbreviated version of getting in again. Just stay in and thrust gently. She may be a little raw.

[Berethor]

It's not a rocket science, the harder part is finding a virgin.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

[Anonymous]

Depends if he's a natural, some are gifted and a pleasure in bed, others are simply let's just say not so bright you moan and push your clit towards them they start to lick the pubis. And when you tell them that's no good they say sorry 5-6 times and keep on doing it wrong, or so I've heard from a friend of a friend lol

[KrisPW]

I'd just make sure he knows the basics and encourage him when he does good things for me. I wouldn't be good at hand holding him through a "do this, then do this, then that, etc.."

[Chattyguy44]

If it's a female then yes I would guide her, i'd give her the best advice and experience that she wouldn't soon forget

[Recurrence]

I’m a virgin, so I’m not sure. Probably communication and some research