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How would you handle a friends with benefits who expected oral everytime you hang out and never pleasures you?

After 3+ months of fooling around they've never given you an orgasm
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  • Ugh, I dated a dude like this recently and ended things. It was all about him getting sucked then dictating to me how he wants it done but never gave me head, or pleasured me. Even sex was quick because he always came fast and never asked if I finished. Men like this are selfish, plain and simple. It’s all about him and how he’s feeling, and your more just for use to help him get there. You can do so much better than that, or find a friends with benefits that actually considers you. That’s what I’m doing as well, recognizing my worth and cutting ties with people who can’t live up to that, as if you’re even asking for much in the first place.

    • You were smart to move on 👍 You seem intelligent/mature in general. If you don't mind could I message you to get an opinion on a different topic?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well why would you expect any different? If you are looking for pleasure yourself, either search for somebody that cares enough or maybe get into a relationship. It’s expected to be one sided when a guy is literally only friends with you because you give him what he wants without the say of needing a relationship. If your standards are low, you can only expect low.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Friendship requires give and take.

    Like if you have a "friend" that you buy lunch for all the time and they never offer to buy anything back? Or even reciprocate in any other way. Is that really a friend?

    A friends with benefits is supposed to be casual, but come on... you taking the cum shots in your mouth and he won't even lick your pussy? thats fucked up.

  • Fooling around meaning that he's been using you and you have nothing to show for it.

    Make him pay the entry fee to play in your park or he doesn't get to ride any rides.

    3 months?
    Your patience and generosity are extreme.
    Stop letting him take advantage of you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You have a taker who doesn't like to give. If it were me, my first disappointing experience would have been the last. I don't ask for much, but if he is only interested in a quick 3 minute ride, then why bother? It takes longer than that to get undressed and put your clothes back on. He obviously does not care if you get off. I would also spread the word around and warn other girls about this loser.

  • I guess he is getting all the benefits. Why do you put up with it? Why don't you use your mouth to tell him what you like instead of using it to give him pleasure while you do without. Tell him that he has to pleasure you first before you return the favor, because right now he is playing you for a chump.

  • I would have ended it a long time ago because he's a selfish guy he should have given you an orgasm the very first day he only cares about himself

  • I'd actually be ok if she demanded I go down on her for a few hours every day and told me she will never do the same for me. I'm addicted to going down on women and their reaction when I do.

  • Personally I’d be completely satisfied with that

  • Why are you even trying with them anymore? If I were you I'd pack up and find a better lover

  • Gotta communicate this or Gotta find someone who's gonna have that that equal give and take. Even if it's a friends with benefits it's still a sort of relationship where you both have needs/desire.

  • After two times I would no longer be friends with.

    • I always go first

  • I would get frustrated. I am a pleaser though

  • I'm not into friends with benefits, and someone that cared about you in a relationship probably wouldn't treat you that way.

  • Time to ditch that lover and find a new friends with benefits.

  • My friends with benefits I usually just give oral to. Lol.

  • There wouldn't be a second time trust me

  • sounds like a friend with no benefits. why are you friends? find a new one.

  • Does not sound like a friend, just a user

  • Well.. id move on pretty quick

  • That wouldn't be relationship id participate in, I would've left after the first time it happened. Life is too short to deny yourself pleasure.

  • Tell him what you want him to do. Don't blow him until after he makes you cum each time.

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