How would you react if your husband cheated on you?

Question

I think it's normal for men to cheat. Women seduce men by dressing too revealingly. what do you think?

SomothErgai · Accepted Answer

Woman AND men cheat. humans are naturally inclined to want to fuck. it's just in our DNA it's a part of who we are. people who tell you it "isn't normal" don't have a clue what the rates are for cheating. And honestly i don't know why we all make ourselves so miserable over this.

We already know this about ourselves as a species. Why is it so drastically important to us that we be the one and only source of sexual pleasure for somebody? Especially when we are almost always mismatched in how often we want it. many many men are with women who always have some reason not to be in the mood AND vice versa.

Wouldn't a really easy solution just be to let people fulfill their needs in whatever way they need to? Nobody ever stops to think about what it really means to be jealous. if they did they would come to find out that it's rooted in a really dark place.

The idea that something about a person belongs to you. You get to have control over it. you can mistreat it or neglect it if you want to and if they don't like it that's tough because it's YOURS and you can do whatever you want with it. And if anyone else dares satisfy it you fly into a fit of rage that they have now interacted with YOUR property. And worse yet, you feel like this property is now worth less because of it.

Sometimes you might even be afraid that they might like someone else more and leave you for them. Well here's a thought. Did you ever think that might be a good thing? If you love somebody, you want them to be happy right? If you found out they could get more happiness from someone else wouldn't you want that for them? If not than you have to wonder. do you really love them? Do you really want what's best for them? Or do you just want them to make YOU feel better? which doesn't really sound a lot like love to me.

So I don't know man. My SO literally cannot cheat because I want them to find happiness wherever they can. If it's not me then I hope it's with someone who can.

george201 · Accepted Answer

No , men cheating is not normal or something natural in us.. cheating is unethical thing and there is no difference between men and women cheating both are rubbish.

Second : women wearing revealing clothes is not a justification for someone to cheat.. if someone loves a partner he/she would not cheat whatever they see.

It is the cheaters who wants to justofy cheating by portraying that it is something out of their ability to cope with and still keep his/her promise with the partner.

Humans are adaptable creature , we can cope with any culture we are raised in..

Humans conciousness is shaped and structured based on the environment they are raised in and affected their personality formation.. according to the conciousness of each individual our behaviours are constructed as a reflection to that conciosuness.

If i was born in a society that people wear revealing clothes then psychologically i became adapted to see and live with that as a normal thing , so my sexual drive is adapted to be restricted and limited to a specific time and situations that don't violate personal rights and their freedom.

If i was born in a conservative society then i will see women wearing revealing clothes as weird and unethical huamans becausey conciousness was structured to what exist in the conservative society considering it to be " natural order " .

According to anthropology we humans lived for long times naked men and women , and today there are many humans in communal tribes who are naked men and women and they live normally.. even in Europe especially in eastern germany the socialist country gave its people the right to be naked on beaches normally.. united states and western societies have naked beaches where people are psychologically adapted to live with that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think if you can’t control yourself enough to be faithfully then don’t be in a relationship at all. I am in the middle of a divorce because my husband cheated on me

HelpfulWoman · Accepted Answer

outing yourself as a troll XD @emmamary look, she's gagging for an award XD

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

My wife could bet her entire existence on me not cheating, because I don't cheat. If a woman dressed revealing in front of me, I'd make a joke and say something like. 'blimey, don't get many of those to the pound'