I would keep it in mind, but I would rather live in blind ignorance that it isn't high than let it be a turning point and rule over me.
I would be hypocritical if I held it against her. At the end of the day she is with me. If she decides to do something during our relationship that goes against what we both agreed upon, then we will go from there.0 1 0 0Learning about a lie of any significance, whether is was about her sexual history, education, family background, job, etc. would make me womder what else was a lie, I'd start questioning my trust of her, and that would be the beginning of the end.
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3 11Once a ho, always a ho, and she also a liar, I can't trust a girl like that.
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MadonnaWhoreComplex0 1 0 0well, in your scenario... I sound insecure as fuck... so I will probably do something stupid like the douchebag I probably am
and then I will have even more trust issues and blame women for my inadequacy
and very much likely... I'll get an even bigger boat before the day is over, because I'm damn wealthy and successful0 0 0 0My S. O. should be honest with me, but then again, I would not be getting all up into their personal information before meeting me. I don't feel like it is any of my business what thier sexual history is, unless we are talking major health concerns, like HIV or hepatitis C. Something contagious and dangerous might pique my interest about who they slept with and when.
0 0 0 0They're going to have to earn my trust, and that will take a long time.
0 0 0 0I have never been either of the people in this scenario so I don't know. I suppose it would depend on why my SO lied.
0 1 0 0I would not care.
As Billy Connolly said on stage, I would rather have a ‘flaming whore’ who knew what to do than a trembling clueless virgin.0 1 0 0I wish I could answer that simply. I can tell you trust is a big thing with me. When you lose my trust it it's very hard to get it back. I would imagine it would depend on how long she had spun that lie. I want to say I'd end it right there. Because I can't imagine what excuse she'd give that would be defensible. But I don't want to give a definite answer to and indefinite situation.
0 1 0 0See ya! Not because of the sex, because of the lie. That's what I'd say. Then I'd see what her "heartfelt" defense is, if she offers one.
0 1 0 0D. I. V. O. R. C. E.
0 1 0 0I'm sure many would disagree, but if you subscribe to other notions (mentioned in a moment), it's arguably rape.
They say things lying about STD status or stealthing (removal of the condom without the other participant's knowledge) is rape. While I entirely agree with the immorality and severity of these things, I personally think we should have a different, but equally serious word for it.
But I don't think its right to deliberately lie about something that someone else's consent depends on, even if implied, rather than explicitly mentioned. Just like in the case where you don't explicitly say "I will have sex with you under the condition that you use a condom" but it was implied when getting touchy-feely, and he pulls out a condom and only then does sex initiate, it would be immoral for him to then remove it without her knowledge.0 1 0 0Confront her about lying
0 1 0 0I would dump her because I don't have time for liars. I am done ignoring red flags.
0 1 0 0IThey’d have to earn my trust again. I have a very hard time trusting people and SO in general due to past experiences with others but it’d take awhile to regain that trust back.
0 1 0 0Get checked for hiv then run away asap. If she lie about something that stupid then she definitely will never admit to cheating. If you have to lie, it means you shouldn't be with the person
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