He said, “since you like it so much and whipped it out while I’m laying in bed.” I haven’t given him a blowjob in a few years and I’ve probably only done it to him about 15 times ever and we’ve been together for 10 years. Does this mean he’s looking at porn or cheating? He claims he doesn’t do either.
You’re kidding, right? You’ve done it in the past, so apparently it isn’t something that crosses some sort of line for you, but you refuse to do it for the person you exchanged vows with? Did he not want blowjobs other than the few that you did? Oral sex is part of any healthy sex life. If you’re married, this should be an absolute.
I’m tempted to call you a troll or a guy pretending to be a girl. If this is for real, drop to your knees and service your man. And do it whenever he wants. And do it even if he doesn’t ask for it.
Nope. I’m a woman and not trolling
But why aren’t you doing this for him? He shouldn’t have to ask! You are obliged to do so as his wife!
If he was cheating then he'd likely already be getting a blowjob from somewhere else. He probably just wants you to give him a bj. There could be something else behind it, but just talk to him, ask him why he's waited so long to ask for it. Most importantly give him one lol
It doesn't mean he wants it from watching porn. He wants it because he's a man and it feels amazing. He wants pleasure. That's it.
Maybe he's just really dying for a blowie since it's been so long
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would have a talk with him and tell him how you feel about all of this. Maybe that it's also a little aggressive? Like he's speaking for you?
I'm not sure about porn, but I could see why this would be off-putting. Just in my opinion.
And maybe it is porn. I would definitely have a talk with him and ask him what's going on.
I wouldn’t overthink it.
Maybe he’s just trying to do something different to keep it interesting. Maybe being a bit dominant and taking the lead.
Give him what he wants.
Just give the guys some head. Seeing that you would do anything to pleasure him will likely curb the desire after a few times. I think it’s more of an issue of you showing that you want to see him happy. Many times, it will kill that desire and bring things right back. But I feel that if you deny it, he may begin to look elsewhere
He's been craving it all along and frustrated that he almost never gets it. 100 percent he is watching porn. Give him more head and you'll both be happier.
how Is it 100 per event he’s watching porn?
Percent*
He's a sexually active male.
Perhaps he is feeling for a blowjob hence he is asking you but if you are not feeling don't be pressure into it.
It's not an unreasonable request. Give him what he wants. If you don't then he will find someone who will
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