It's disrespect and he should be doing everything he can to insulate and protect his marriage and honor his vow to forsake all other's meaning other women you should ask him as his wife if he has any integrity to keep his promise to you that he made in front of witnesses. It is difficult enough for couples to stay together without doing things that will sabotage your marriage. What does it mean well you have to ask yourself what are you doing is there neglect or is he just being selfish or are you both still in love and make love regularly. A marriage is a lot of work don't kid yourself. You do need to talk about it but do so in a spirit of love and you will get the answer you need from the source just ask him in honestly. Do you not find me attractive anymore why are you violating your vows. Your vererabilty is your strength not your weakness and he needs to see and hear how you feel about it. And he needs to tell you honestly why he has those pictures on his phone. There has to be transparency in a marriage and communicate with love and not hostility because you are lovers and best friends and not enemies. Maybe he just needs to be reminded of that but don't just ignore it. It's wedge and it will divide what is supposed to be one. Their is no I or me in a marriage only us one flesh. I hope that helps sweetie.
It means you’re not his one and only sexual fantasy.
Whenever I’m committed to a woman I delete all of the porn and completely clear my history. I focus on her. I don’t want nudes over an actual woman. If I have to look at that stuff she’s not the ideal girl for me. Sex and intimacy is important to me in a relationship. If I have to meet those needs through other means then she’s not the one.
That’s why I’m confused because this girl actually used to fight with me over him and he ended up choosing me, but they talk on instagram and sext they tell each other they love each other and he told her he’s not attracted to me and was drunk when he got me pregnant
That’s a lot of context. Yeah I think his problem goes beyond the sexual aspect of the relationship
The people posting it's the woman's issue that she hasn't fulfilled her husband sexually are full of it. If a man feels like that he can be a grown up and discuss it with his wife. Some things are outside of a person's boundaries and won't participate in them. If a man doesn't like that or the wife refuses to address sexual deprivation in the relationship than the husband can divorce the wife.
There a many times when the wife (or the husband) is doing good toward their spouse and their spouse still chooses to cheat. I am not saying this man is cheating just that people can use all kinds of excuses to step of marriage. I've heard of people cheating because their spouse is an alcoholic. Don't cheat just leave. It's as simple as that.
It happened to me once! My husband was scrolling through his album on his phone with me and I spotted it out.. I was upset and as I walked out the room, he forcefully grabbed my arm and pulled me back in.. I should of done something then and left him! He said he looked at naked pictures of women because I wouldn't let him look at my body.. How the f*** would I do that if I am not comfortable around my husband in the first place 😑 but he obviously doesn't acknowledge this
Ummm. Sorry to say but insecurities can put a man off.
I do not understand how you could marry a man like that. And why do you sty with him if that is what your relationship is like?
Red_arrow I didn't know until after I got married that I felt this way.. And he won't leave. Carebear33, yes I was insecure but it didn't turn him off... i don't think he's in touch with his sexuality
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What is wrong with you married People! Your married! As the wife you need to say so. ething about this, now! This kinds of stuff is why actual women leave their husbands. You should not ignore this. It means he's either cheating on you and or is watching porn. Either way, his butts in seriois trouble.
Oh my goodness, What? Okay this has to end NOW. tell your husband goodbye, get the proof and take him to court. This marriage is over. You never fight over a man. Ever. Sounds like he has regrets or wants his cake and eat it too.
Not ok. Wouldn't be my husband for vary long, I expect loyalty and full commitment so should you ignore, up to what you are willing to deal with. Why does he have them, like everyone else saying he's jerking off to it or is screwing her. Men don't put shit like that on their phone unless they're stupid or they want you to find it. And that's for you to figure out.
by the way, not ok to go through your partners phone, must have mistrust?
Is this Woman someone he Knows or just a fake Model? Let him Know that it is Disrespectful, He is a Spouse and Now.. A Mouse. xxoo
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Confront and get out of there. You deserve better
So let's get this straight. You're both married. You can't talk to him about something that's upsetting you. He's been scoping out other women. Sounds like a happy marriage you've got there.
If I am completely honest, I think he either has a connection to those nudes that he isn't ready to let go of or he is attracted to the girl. I think you two should talk it out and try to compromise
If she is really attractive or hot, and he knows her. Am sorry for this but he is sleeping with her. Also it's up to you to ignore it or not, he is full of lust or you can't really give him whatever he wants. Men generally don't cheat but if they do it's either the lust side or else no fullfil ments
Are they people he knows or is in contact with? If so, I would be seriously concerned. If they are just pics of random women, it just means that he like the appearance of women's bodies and there is nothing wrong with that. It's just inspirational porn.
That being said, it's not abnormal for you to be concerned. Does he know that you know that he has those photos? Does he know that you are concerned? Would he want to replace those photos with inspirational pics of your boobs and ass?
Definitely fucking her behind your back.
Looks like husband is getting old of you u need to take action show him ur appeal so that those pic change to yours
This rings alarm bells. If your partner has nudes (or even sexually suggestive) of another woman on his phone, especially multiple photos, this would make me wonder who he actually wants. If she just stent them to him trying to get to him over you then this is one thing but in that case why is he not deleting them? Check his sms and other messages to see what is going on. You may also have to confront him about them.
Is it a porn-star? If so does she resemble you? If so, he fantasizes about sex with you. If not, he more than likely wants more sex with you.
If it is not a porn-star. Full stop. Ask him and if it is a woman he actually knows - that's the end. His sexual interest in you is gone. You're just friends.
Is it just one women or more. He shouldn't have any on there if he's married
he shouldn't have nudes of any other girl on his phone without your knowledge. that's just wrong. you need to talk to your husband about it
Why is it when it helps girls need the benefits they use logic and reason and give good answers but when there a possibility of unfair to them they are about emotions in short i like you're answer am just a little mad a girl was the only one that said it
When all girls act like idiots and self centered
Absolutely disrespectful to you as his wife, especially since he is very obviously sexting her.
if y’all don’t have an “open relationship” that is cheating sis.
confront him— don’t cry— be strong about it and decide if cheating is something that Breaks the limit of whether or not to forgive something in a relationship.
What? You are asking? Definitely don't ignore it unless you're ok with what crossed your mind
He's likely talking to someone, maybe not in the "real world" but online. I had an ex who did the same, he's your husband, I would absolutely ask him, best of luck!
I would be pisseddddd. You better believe he’d be hearing me complain.
Talk. To. Him. About how you feel or first about the discovery to ser his reaction. Certain people on this site have confrontational anxiety it seems. We can only tell you possibilities. You have to find the reality. After you've received a response, evaluate how you feel about it and all this. We can help you more then.
Okay can't edit or delete your comment to make better ines after updates to write new ones so here's a reply after your update: Thank you for providing more detailed information. This is one of the biggest red flags you'll ever see, with a red flag country, with red flag people in it speaking red flag language... You get the gist. I can rant on and on about how this is an extremely bad sign. But honestly? Just knowing who that person is was enough. And all the other details and discrepancies are only chanting "run, run, run..." over and over, faster and faster. Get out. Now. For your own sake. There is no rational explantion for this other than he is no longer (assuming he ever was) interested in you and if he was, he was only in it to pass time or to get certain benefits. And instead of breaking up with you, he does that? Nah sis, leave. Nobody deserves to be dehumanised like that.
You can ask him about them. He has them because he finds her attractive.
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