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11 mo

I accidentally stumbled on a sociopath killer video and I wonder for anyone hooking up w/strangers, how do you feel safe?

I know not all hook his are with Stanford and I know dangerous things can still happen with people we know but it just seems going to a completely strange location with someone you don’t know is adding unnecessary threat to your life.

I understand there’s a certain amount of “reading a person” or “ feeling the vibes” involved with any encounter, but i inshore really skilled sociopaths are great at mimicking relaxed trustworthy behavior. I just don’t get it, why the risk?

I feel terrible for people who have to make a living that way bc you really never know what May be lurking under the veneer.

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I just feel it out I’m good at deciphering people, I’ve never had a problem
Vote A
I’m strong so I’m not worried
Vote B
I pack protein toon so it’s all good
Vote C
I’m a natural arts expert
Vote D
I just go with the flow. Lives shirt if it’s my time, it’s my tine.
Vote E
O would never spend time alone with a stranger.
Vote F
I only do hook ups w/ strangers when other people are hone.
Vote G
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11 mo
Oh quite a few typos on the option section. My apologies 👍🏼 C I pack protection so it’s all good. D I’m a martial arts expert. E I just go with the flow. Life is short. If it’s my time, it’s my time. F I would never spend time alone with a stranger G I only do hook ups with strangers, when other people are home. & I know statistically it’s not super common you will end up hanging out with a sociopathic serial killer… knowing the slim odds doesn’t really do it for me tho 👀 👀 😂 😬
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  • Looking back, I've put myself in a lot of potentially dangerous places and situations with strangers. I've gone into some really shady places and been in the worst parts of town in the Los Angeles area or in isolated wilderness areas.
    I've also hitch hiked a bit.
    I was never armed.

    I was nervous a few times, but trusted the fact that I could be cool and fit in. As it turned out, I never had a problem.

    The thing is, though, I'm a guy. I could have potentially gotten robbed, mugged or murdered. But I didn't have to worry about being assaulted or raped, and certainly not by a girl. That's not even in the realm of possibility. It was I who had to make THEM feel at ease.

    Girls are much more vulnerable. And they have something that guys want. So girls have to be much more cautious.

    One of the things I've always admired about women is their pluck. When they go out with a man, they place themselves in a potentially dangerous situation. That is even more true in sexual situations where they they place themselves at a man's mercy and are completely vulnerable. But a lot of women find it thrilling to be with a man who is much larger and stronger than they are. They like being used hard during sex. Some get off on the danger of being bound and simulating rape (not by strangers). It's an interesting dynamic.

    Women develop a very strong sense of observation and discernment. They learn to read people and look for warning signs. Even still, if they don't know a guy well, there is always a risk even though it's rare to run across a total psychopath. Because of that, it's a good idea to have a means of self defense.

    I will say that, with every girl I ever dated, we already knew each other a bit, either through friends or work. They knew that I would suffer severe repercussions if I tried to harm them. So It's not like I was some random dude. And it only took a date or two for them to realize that I wasn't a threat.

    • Hmm I never saw this question as being about gender. In fact the video was about 17 male victims who’d been dragged raised decapitated and murdered. Sorry TMI 😑 🤢 I don't know there will be people who want “what guys have” and there will be some who just want to hurt or get s thrill from being subhuman. Yes women tend to face rape more often but I wonder if some ken in a sense are more vulnerable bc they assume they don’t have to Worry. I don't know. I know most victims of violence are men snd rape in prison is 20 X that of women outside of prison. I doubt all those ken raping are homosexual so there is a real domination desire. I also think fair is not reported as often when men are victims. And of course there are weapons which will more often than not trump strength. Plus you never know if the person is an individual actor or just bait. I’m glad you’re safe ☺️ & you got to experience all that life… Wish hitch hiking culture was still a thing. I see women jumping into trucks in the 60s & 70s movies — my eyes pop out of my head 😂

    • You make a good point about men more often being victims of violence. I'm sure it's always been the case.

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  • what's scary is that some of these psychos could be your neighbors... and then they could just live their lives or wait for years and years, till the one day they wake up feel like doing something again... and one might be their next trigger... lol

    • Yup I mean I have nothing to add lol it’s just yes 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • that's just one of many risks with hook-ups... could be a killer person or a killing STD but, most of our lives bring risk so... we just pick what kind of risks we want to dare, lol

    • That was very introspective. Sounds like you know from experience Nathan. You weird fuck.

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  • I used to do them, but I would text, chat for several weeks first to get to know them.

    I'm not worried about the incel guy just wanting to get some... I'm worried about the sweet looking hot Ted Bundy guys, that can easily get it.

    That said though, there was a time I was running down the hall of the hotel room carrying my cloths rather than wearing them.

    The point being, I never met anyone anywhere isolated... get a room, tell me the number, I show up, knock... you let me in. Camera's in hallway, and sure I could be removed in pieces in a suit case but I also told people where I was going, who I was meeting.

    The one time the guy started hitting me, so I just grabbed my cloths and ran away. I used a stun gun on him then took off.

    I would never meet someone in the middle of the night in the middle of no where, a girl like that as killed by a guy. Always had to be somewhere with easy escape access for me.

    Sure I realize that a true serial killer or whatever could be a great guy for multiple meet ups and THEN when trust is earned kill me.

    Then again, maybe I am the sociopath killer.

  • They few I did when I was younger, I was already deeply suicidal and didn't care if I died or not. Safety wasn't my concern in the least.

    • That makes sense. Thank you for sharing. Glad you’re in a better place 🌞

    • Yay for medication and bimonthly therapy Anytime

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  • I never go to strange places with people I don't know too well yet

    • The foundation of a good personal security plan. This and situational awareness.

  • Sociopath or not, it's the risk people have taken the entire existence of our species. We need to get together one way or another to keep the world going.

  • The majority of psychopaths and sociopaths are not killers. Doesn't mean I would hang out with them alone though.

  • they pick their targets carefully, not acting on a whim in most cases. they know routines, habits, lifestyles, etc. so they prolong their capture from law enforcement. victims don't know they're victims until it's too late.

    • But would you yourself go off with strangers?

    • i have gone off with some very shady people before. as for shady women no

  • You’re correct. It’s a huge risk.

  • I just go with the flow. Lives shirt if it’s my time, it’s my time

    • Is true life is short Carpe Diem 💦

    • @vivant Yes I Agree :p

    • 😊😊

  • I don't hookup with strangers. I don't do hookup culture period tbh.

  • I think there are a few too many typos in this to really understand what you're trying to say!

    • Really? I thought I checked 😯

    • You’re right sir, a ton in fact.. I checked the post but I forgot to check the options. It’s real cold my hands are a bit stiff Lol

    • Hahaha! It's all good. Although I wasn't even talking about the response options. I read your question a couple of times and couldn't quite make out what you were saying! :P

  • You need to be careful... Going to a place with a stranger or someone you know very little about... If you think about it for a minute... No matter how charming and safe they seem... It has a risk... But people just go with the flow... And we hear a lot about sexual assaults that happen that way nowadays... They walk right into it... People need to be smarter and more careful...

    • I agree.

  • I wouldn't feel safe, hence why I don't do that

  • I just avoid being alone with strangers in strange places altogether. Too many close calls with questionable characters led me to implement certain measures.

    • Yup yup yup I hear you well 👂🏻 👍🏼

    • We can never be too careful. Psychos are everywhere lol

    • lol I know and why am I laughing 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️

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  • I have always wondered the same thing. It's complete madness.

    I think they get off on the thrill. Knowing that they're putting themselves in danger and that they're "spinning the wheel," so to speak.
    (And I personally think there are some underlying mental health issues that need to be addressed.)

    • Also, I was going to make a joke about packing protein, but I don't want to be crude.

    • Lol no problem And yeah I don't know what is more bizarre to me if someone DID do it partially bc they seek a thrill OR just felt safe doing so 😬

    • @VIVANT Oh yeah. That, too! Though I suppose that wouldn't phase me too much, because there are a LOT of stupid people out there. 🤷

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  • hook ups with strangers has its perils. arm yourself with information that you can share with people. Honestly, it’s best not to hook up with unknowns , but people always feel, “ it will never happen to me”.

  • I feel like most of the women who end up in these situations are also fans of criminal minds.. meaning they got what they've always wanted and it didn't work out for them.. which means nobody fucking cares.

    • Anyone can be a target and to my knowledge men make up far more of the population who do hook ups so the risky behavior is not specific to women. You don’t need to over power someone to harm them you can use instruments & whatever insane plan these people really rehearse sh’t 👀 I wouldn’t feel safe even if I was bigger & stronger. And I don’t see that as being helpful of the person is “skilled” 🤢 I don’t see a reason to bring gender into this anyhow. I’m asking people who do hook ups how they look at it 🤷🏻‍♀️😊

    • They see the red flags and get all soaked. This isn't a complex situation.

  • I don't do hookups an hav had done back ground check on a few exs by my self

  • Well you know how to be safe from a person like that? Be worse than them lol.

  • All of the first 5, lol.
    I won't commit to anything unless I have a decent level of trust with someone, but also I'm 6'7 and practiced quite a bit of martial arts.
    If you're a girl, be sure to let someone know where you're going and meet them in public.

    • That’s not enough lol no way it doesn’t take long to rake someone out. People knowing where I’m going knit gelato to know if I’m missing. Doesn’t prevent anything. I think it’s good to be prepared and 6 7 can’t hurt lol but knowing how crazy people can he watch I think I’d still be wary - who knows if they have a back up plan 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • I had a brief interaction and date with a seriously ill woman

  • wow thats crazy

  • I voted C but rarely go out with strangers until I know them better.

    • Thanks for sharing Jerre 😊

    • @vivant Thank you for the Like

    • You are more than welcome

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