I actually have 2. First, is it me or do I just pick really insecure guys? Second, why on earth do they flirt hardcore infront of me and rub it in?

After my bad break up, it took about 10 months to where I was comfortable to have another dick in me (abused for 3 years and was recovering). The first guy went soft at first but eventually we managed to have sex. The second guy we had sex and he was hard but he couldn't cum, third guy was soft and the last guy I tried to fuck a week or so ago went soft on me too. Mind you, when they go soft or couldn't cum, we're still hanging out or doing something sexual. But it's destroying my confidence even more especially after the ex that broke me down. I didn't think I was ugly I mean I have people call me cute and pretty and they love how my body looks. I mean if it's cuz I fumble and don't seem too great at it, I mean its been a moment since I had to learn how to work another's dick other than my ex's. But I mean it makes me miserable and want to avoid sex more. As for the second question, the most recent guy I tried to screw has been flirting hardcore with my 50 yr manager in front of me after he wanted to just be friends and she likes to rub it in my face. Example: I'm on the far end of the desk and they still came to approach me talking about how he wants her to 'train him' and they just rubbed it in my face when I was already in a bad mood. I mean I try to be nice, I try to be as happy as I can be when each day I fight against suicidal thoughts. Am I picking them wrong or what? Why are they doing this?
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  • Seems like a pattern of them going soft in you. Do they cum and then go soft?

    • It's not even in me... we would makeout and they're hard and seem excited and we get naked and then they get soft. The we still do sexual things but at the same time wtf. They seen nudes and sent nudes to me too.

    • Whoa they go soft before they go in you? That’s not a good sign. Were they hard in the nudes tho?

    • Regarding the guy, he sounds like a jerk in my opinion

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  • Since 2023 til now I have been going soft deep in the heat of the moment, hookers, hook ups, ex wife, ex girlfriend you name it,

    I just need more time to get into it,

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