I am a 25 year old virgin, time is running out. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

Long story short I went to private school from kindergarten to 12th grade, it was Christian school, so sex was frowned upon. Girls didn't like me then and I'm pretty sure they don't like me now either. I'm 5'10 215 lbs and kinda strong but I think I'm ugly as hell, so not many women even talk to me. But what do I do?

Like I said I'm 25, and still a virgin, I definently feel like my time is running out so to speak. Like I'm only going to hand a couple more years before it really starts going downhill. I just don't know what to do. I wanna have a family but that kind of requires sex and that's hard when you're not getting any and never got any before. I feel like I'm expected to know exactly what to do and I don't.

I'm pretty frantic and scared.

[Dargil]

Try to become the best you can. Buff up, lose a few pounds.
Choose things that matter to you (I have an antique Oldsmobile and show it) and immerse yourself in them. Let the strength of your interest draw women to you. They will know you make things matter and can make them matter. An old intellectual named Maslow said that you do not pursue pleasure. You pursue circumstances that will produce it.
She: "Gee Mr. Smith. Thats a really pretty Oldsmobile Starfire you have there." My grandfather had one like it and said it was the best car he ever drove!"

You: "Well. Would you like to have a ride in it after the show? Maybe we can get coffee and talk about it."
She: "Sure. I'd like that!"

[Asker]

That car is a bad motherfucker. Gorgeous.

[Gatman34]

Quit being so desperate Jesus you sound like a creep. So many men nowadays are like you. Just obsessed with women and you are so desperate and weak you put women on pedestals and make yourself look like you have no self Control and self respect. It’s embarrassing you don’t see women acting this desperate in guys your age are this thirsty

[jennifer_bloom]

I think there are two things you can use to attract people if your ugly or poor or both ugly and poor

1. Your spirit and intelligence
2. Your religion and character

Cause there was this very short guy in my university who was able to attract the finest woman out there

Cause he was dynamic and engaging and witty and funny and loyal and funny and open minded and intelligent and honest and bold and confident and caring

I'm average looking and people are always saying good things about me because I'm full of spirit and have high entertainment value

[Glenn603]

25 isn’t very old, I was much older than that when I lost mine. You have loads of time yet

[msss98]

What do u mean time is running out?

[Asker]

It's running out for me to find someone. As a woman, you know that 25 year old virgin is creepy if you aren't religious. You know and I know.

[Asker]

So when they find out, they'll leave and itll be back to square 1

[msss98]

Can't u just try getting a couple hook ups then?

[msss98]

If thats what u think its stopping you, if ur starting a relationship they probably won't care unless u try to open with thay😂

[Substantialman]

Just go out. Girls are not 100% concerned with looks they want fun, laughter, love, good honest guy. I have dated those hit girls and even they have had insecurity about their looks. Improve on your social circle and if you like club or bar go for it. Make yourself look like the guy girls wanna date.

[poneglyphs]

Damm. dude

[Asker]

Yeah man. FML.

[poneglyphs]

I'm also about to be a 25 year old virgin myself. It sucks

[Asker]

Yeah definitely does. Your thing says 24, I'll be 26 in June. Its bad.

[poneglyphs]

I will be 25 on February 2nd

[Asker]

I'll be 26 June 8th

[GwionKhan]

Get laid

[Dchrls78104]

I am 42 and, like you, a virgin. By your logic, time has already run out for me!