I am a 29-year-old virgin?

[Anonymous]

I kinda am saving it for marriage. But I am still single now. And I don't know whether I will be able to find the right guy soon enough. I told myself that when I turn 30 and still single, I will just do it with some guy no matter what. Do you agree with me?

[Dchrls78104]

No, I disagree with you. I am just like you expect I'm 42. Do not compromise your values for any sexual thrill or any relationship. Doing so amounts to settling and will ultimately prove a total loss. If you cannot find a man who will respect your position that you are not interested in sex before marriage, then no man is worth your time or trouble and you are better off single. Stick with what you believe in and never settle.

[jaybee281]

I think you could but not while acting like a whore who just wants to fuck be interested in the guy and actually nowadays relationships go as in kissing>sex>relationship while before sex was left for the relationship so it's pretty normal to do so just don't do it on a whim

[MtoFtrot]

No keep it cause trust an ex guy most guys want sex not your heart. Save it for the one who wants your heart.

Have fun sexting and talking about sex but save your cherry for the man who puts a ring on that hand.

[Dchrls78104]

Exactly. I fully agree.

[KellyKatz510]

I know a few people that waited until their 30s to get married and were virgins when they did. There is hope.

[Dchrls78104]

I'm 42 and still waiting.

[AustinMan]

I suggest you save for a guy that you really care about and that cares about you. Marriage, not so much.

[jabariw18]

I agree with your decision. You only have one life and wasting it without enjoying something as great and pleasurable as sex is just a recipe for disappointment. Not to mention, as noble/humble of a thing it is to "save yourself for marriage" not everyone is sexually compatible. You may meet a guy, everything is great but sex is awful and congrats, now he is your first and last. It's better to explore and learn/know what you like.

[Regmorus]

Your life, why not

[ArrowheadSW]

Well I'd suggest to wait for someone who is at least somewhat special, if you are going to go through with it.

[abc3643]

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[Jerome3]

Come here and I'll help

[Asker]

You sure kid?

[worldscolide]

its up to you.. I do know that men who are willing to wait until marriage to have sex are very few and far between.

[hellacray]

When you turn 30 you will just do it with some guy?

Umm ok... I guess you could do that.

[Asker]

Yeah I know I could. But is it a good idea?

[hellacray]

I guess? But once you hit 30 I don't think you should just lose it to the first guy you see.

[loveslongnails]

You waited this long, you might as well keep waiting. I don't want to be "Donny Downer", but I can't help thinking it's going to be a disappointment either way.

[JimboGB]

No, stick to your principles.

[Twalli]

I would wait until you get a boyfriend, but it's fine to want to save yourself to marriage up to a certain age.

[ZSean]

I mean obviously you can do what you please when you please.

My only thought is, don't just throw away the moment. Try and at least make it special and not with just some rando.

[eagle1951]

that's up to you, it's your body

[Zach1457]

That's a f*cked up situation

[StannyBoy]

Save it. Do oral and make him to do it to you. With someone you love.
Save it until marriage with this person.

[Anonymous]

Jesus Christ, yes just fuck already.

Nothing makes me sadder than hearing about 40 year old virgins who are saving themselves for a marriage which obviously isn't coming.

It doesn't have to be someone completely random though there is middle ground between marriage and some guy you just met on the street.

[Anonymous]

No i don't agree, i think you were saving it for long time, why to give in lats years.