I am a hopeful romantic and I enjoy all the little and big things that comes along with romance. I'm not really one that cares about sex though and I?

Am not someone who masturbates. If I have sex, it's with someone who I extremely care about/love and am in a long-term relationship with. When I'm not in a relationship which isn't very often, I do not have sex and masterbation doesn't give me any pleasure. I have to be getting sexual with someone to feel pleasure and we also have to have a connection. I'm not sure what to identify myself as. I don't know I'm asexual. I'm not sure what I would label myself as.
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  • Sexuality isn't black and white and everyone experiences it differently which is why labels sometimes just don't work for some people. But if you feel the need to label yourself, I guess the closest label to what you have described is probably demisexual.

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  • Sex is romantic I understand wanting to be in a relationship but you should view sex and romance as interconnected. I mean what could be more romantic than someone you love literally being inside of you and shoving his tongue down your throat or kissing you’re neck while in the missionary position.

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  • Uhm just Normal? You need to feel comfortable and that's about it

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  • As was already said you sounds like demisexual, and it's not uncommon among women.

  • You don't need to label yourself as anything.
    Some people have a higher sex drive than others.
    If I eat certain foods or exercise heavily, I do not worry about sex or masturbating much.

    It is fine not to masturbate or crave sex

    • When I have sex with a partner that I love and have a strong connection with/have been with for a long while, then I have a high sex drive but when I'm not involved in any of those things, I don't have sex and I don't crave it much besides randomly once in awhile, mainly at night.

  • Sex is a part of romance how do you think your gonna have one without the other

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  • You don't need a label and you can do what ever feels comfortable to you.

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    • Thanks and good luck and don't worry about labels.

  • I find no pleasure masturbation as in yiu tried every masturbation technique? Then how do you get your body ready for sex

    • Kissing someone that I have very strong feelings for.