I am a virgin about to have sex with my boyfriend, help?

[julscobain]

My boyfriend and I have been a thing already for almost seven months but I've never felt really ready for sex, not even oral sex. Now I do, I really want to and I want to do it with him. I know that losing the v-card isn't like it is pictured in the movies - all romantic and shit - but still I need some more info. Like, should I shave? Is a little hair bad? Am I supposed to bring the condoms? Also, I get super wet super easily, what if he finds it gross? Like even with just kissing I'm super wet. I'm freaking out, really need some help!

[DessieDoo]

You don't have to shave but make sure you are nicely trimmed. A super hairy bush can be extremely unattractive to some men. I think the condoms should be brought by both parties, just in case one forgot to grab some. So I would pick some up just in case. You getting extremely wet will not be an issue. Actually, it will probably turn him on. Guys love a wet pussy because they know they are the reason behind it and it is an ego booster. So its a good thing you get super wet. The only advice I can give you is to take it slow. When I lost my virginity, I was super nervous because of how quickly it progressed. There was no foreplay involved. Since this is your first time, cherish it. The quicker you jump into it, the less fun you will have. It probably will hurt at first but it will feel better as it goes on. Also, since you are a virgin, prepare yourself for him not lasting long. You are going to be super tight and this may cause him to ejaculate quickly. It is not his fault and he may even feel badly about it. So make him feel comfortable as well! So take a deep breath, relax and try to enjoy it as much as you can! My experience in losing my virginity sucked very badly and I don't want anyone to experience what I did. Most of all, have fun! And be safe!!! Make sure you have him wear the condom! No matter what happens, do not go without one!

[Anonymous]

You can shave it's your choice he should love you regardless, you should bring a condom just incase and guys love really wet girls it makes sex go smoother

[Anonymous]

You should shave, he should bring condoms and it's not gross at all.

[Anonymous]

Aww, just relax. Let him give you a nice full body massage going nice and slow and the key is making sure you are comfortable and relaxed, clear your mind!! :-) My girl wasn't shaved the 1st time I took her v-card. I wish she was shaved or at least trimmed. But to me the only part where the hair should be shaved or removed is around your lips and I'm not talking about the ones on your face. Lol. And as far as you being easily wet, that's totally hot to me, but don't be surprised if when the time comes and your dry. It happens. Have some lube on standby just incase and he should bring the condoms and make sure you get or on the pill and keep track of your fertility calendar so you don't get pregnant. Hopefully this helps, if not, let me know and I'll try to do better. :-)

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO!!! ;-)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Myself i like to have a girlfriend whose all natural hairy down there
you should be on birth control cause condoms aren't always effective
also the pull out method is lie it does not prevent pregnancy also does
the guy know how to use a condom, if your not sure of things maybe
your not ready to have sex yet..

[Klaatu51]

basally use condoms anyway... and shaved/unshaved it's yer choice ;)

[reptocarl]

I like a natural bush. Its your pussy and make it how you want it. I think he should bring the condoms and i love a woman super wet getting the sheets wet is so hot

[TJM27]

You should shave or at least trim down and I would bring condoms in case he doesn't. Getting wet easily is actually a very good thing because it'll make it less painful for you. Just tell him to be gentle and go slowly and it should be fine.

[Anonymous]

shave or have very littler hair down there, bring condoms in case, and no he shouldn't find u getting wet gross and thats good for your first time cause it normally hurts and that will cause less friction. Just know it most likely will hurt and be uncomfortable the first couple times and tell him to go slow and help him with telling him what u like.