First, don't forget to vet your partner as much as possible. Avoid a guy who brags about all his conquests. As for how to start the conversation, the best way is if things start heading in a direction one night and you are fairly certain you are ready make sure you have condoms that you bought already in your purse or pocket. If you've not seen his penis before and are unsure of size, get one package of each size though most only come in perhaps two sizes. it is rare to find a penis that is either too big or two small to fit. also don't be afraid to use a textured condom. They are just as safe but go a long way to make up for the reduction in sensation by adding stimulation. Have a couple of choices handy then when you are at the point where a condom would go on his penis just pull out the two or three choices and ask which one he would prefer. I suggest one without any anything on it that tastes bad. So pull out one of each kind before you get together with your boyfriend and open the packages and familiarize yourself with how they look, feel and taste and how they unroll. Put them in your mouth and taste them (check the package to make sure they don't have anything toxic in them). This way you won't make funny faces for the next part. Make wearing a condom seem sexy to him by putting it in your mouth then use your mouth to unroll it onto his penis. There are tons of videos on the internet that demonstrate this. practice doing this with a peeled banana. It will always be easier to get him to wear one if you can make it erotic to do so and there are few things more erotic than watching a woman use her mouth on your dick even if there is a condom barrier between penis and tongue. This is also helpful if you don't like the taste of cum. So a textured condom will add some friction to the sensation which enhances it. This will help to counter the effect of the loss of sensation resulting from using a condom. A lot of lube will also hide the loss of sensation and will be especially useful to make your first time less uncomfortable. Oh and don't use your practice condoms on him. Toss them when you are done practicing.
Notice I didn't mention conversation in any of this. This is because you should not need one. If he resists your putting a condom on him or complains then you might want to rethink your choice of partners because he does not consider your health a top priority. His wearing a condom should be automatic even if he thinks you will be insulted by the insinuation that he might catch something from you, a definite insult to a virgin. He can tell if you are a virgin but you can't tell if he is one so you are the one who needs protection not him and he knows it.
Simply be open with any guy that sexual health and trust is important to you..
make sure you are educated about sexual health, book an appointment at a sexual health clinic, they will tell you all you need and also carry out a full sexual health check, even though you are a virgin you need this , trust works both ways, I will not trust a girl that says she’s a virgin and does not need rested. A virgin could still have had anal sex and oral sex, any guy thinking a virgin is safe is stupid.
Most will also give you condoms, always carry at least one condom with you.
yes guys should have but, trusting them is often hard.
Make sure any guy you think about having sex with or relationship with has a sexual health check carried out.
never ever have unprotected sex with a guy you don’t trust or has not had a check carried out.
make sure you are on birth control, be aware of it not being effective if you have some illnesses.
Big point, it’s your body, you make the rules, No means No, they need your consent, any ignore that leave them straight away
If your a virgin there's no need for you to be tested. As for the conversation just be clear that you won't do it without contraception. It's best to have the talk well before having sex and not when he's naked with a hard on.
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Well, since you are a virgin, there is no need to be tested, only the person you are gonna have sex with should be tested if he is not a virgin. About starting a conversation, You should only have this conversation if you think you are ready for sex with that person
First step, Just start by asking about the concept of sex sex, like experience and how it works out, general information.
Second step, tell them about your concerns, like contracting any diseases, having condoms available and always use two condoms.
Third step, ask them if they want to have sex or not and also think if you yourself are ready for it.
Then just go with the flow.
When you get to know someone well enough, and care about them enough, that you think you will be wanting to have sex with them, start the conversation about safe sex. There is no magical way to start the conversation. He may bring up the topic of sex, or you may find yourselves getting into heavy petting, that may lead to sex. Those are times to bring up safe sex. You can start by saying we are really getting into petting, or it seems that we may be heading for a full physical relationship, or may be heading for sex. It doesn't really matter how you do it, just do it. If the guy is any kind of decent guy, he will be very willing to discuss the issue with you. if he isn't, he's not the kind of guy to be in a relationship with.
If you're ready to have sex with someone, have a discussion about it. Tell them your concerns and that you want both of you to get tested. It'll be difficult to know for sure if your partner is cheating on you, so get to know them as best as you can first.
if you don't dare to be direct, be hypothetical. ask him what he thinks of girls that want men to take a test before they have sex.
Well sense your a virgin you don't have to worry about being tested, however you should worry if your partner isn't a virgin. As for safe sex, always have condoms with you, make sure he wears one. Take birth control pills if you want to.
You don't need to be tested
You should be open about this. I expect a clean test from anyone I decide to sleep with (and since I do not sleep around with random people, this is a valid request).
you can talk to me. talk to me first and then you talk to the person you are going to have sex with. in this way, you will be prepared in advance.
If you want we can talk about it you can text to me
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