I am an indian studying in a American school and I have no friends what should I do?

The girls don't have attitude but they don't Talk me much I don't know why and the boys only Pay attention sexually not friendly.
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Doing college job assignments homework household works I don't get time to join group like this. Do American boys only talk to the girl who is their girlfriend or ready to spread her legs for them
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  • Judging from my university-days, I'd also recommend befriending your fellow-foreigners. They may be suffering the same (or 'similar enough') issue (s), too, so you can learn from each other and/or get a sympathetic ear, perhaps.

    As for the general U. S. population, expect trial & error for them to learn how to deal with you (& vice versa). All of us fellow-Asians in America & Asian-Americans are all just about 5.9% of the total U. S. population, so practice with getting-along with us face-to-face is not much, except in places of very high concentrations of us.
    https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/PST045219
    And judging from this count of Indians in here in the U. S., your people specifically are only about 1%.
    https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/fact-sheet/asian-americans-indians-in-the-u-s/

    And, yes. Boyfriend-girlfriend relationships & sex seem much more important/emphasized here among the youth (compared to academics & grades, like back in my Philippines or in your India, whose super-high population-density forces competition for limited opportunities to the extreme as compared to many other countries.)

    • I didn't found any Asian in my college

    • What? In this day and age in the U. S? How big/small is your university? My classes always had even 1 other visibly-Asian classmate. If not for affirmative-action policies, Asians would take-up significantly more percentage of the student-makeup. Surely, there should be events (ex. Asia Nite), clubs (Japan Club), associations (Confucius Institute), etc. on campus. Check your university's student-center building and/or website, or inquire from your academic-advisor where you can get more info on finding your fellow-Asian students.

    • This college is totally American

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  • I suggest you focus on cultivating a more open affect and more open body language. Masne visit a good ago and update your attire to help.

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  • Are there any social clubs or activities that interest you? Joining a group of like minded people is a good place to make friends. Right away, you already have one thing in common.

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  • There are local Indian-American social groups. Find one on the internet and join it.

  • Give it time. You'll make friends.

    • It's been a month

    • Did you try talking to someone from your classes? Are the people starting to get familiarised with your presence?

    • They seems all friendly but no one likes to talk to me if i satrt conversation than they will talk but they don't satart conversation with me

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  • Join a club.
    People will know you there for who you are.
    Americans are racist and ignorant. Just look for the good in people and focus on a few. You'll find those few in clubs and study groups.

  • Don't bother, sometimes it will take time. Just be nice whenever you can

  • Hang out with non-domestics

    • Non-domestics?

    • International