I am aromantic, how am I supposed to get laid?

I am aromantic which means that I don't feel romantic attraction towards girls/woman, I only see them as objects to fuck with my dick. Nature created me this way and I can't go against it. Obviously it makes it harder to get laid when one is aromantic since many girls want a romantic relationship first before fucking a guy. Any ideas how I can get laid being aromantic? Thanks in advance.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This feels dubious but I guess prostitution is your only choice bud. Be careful with using the whole it's nature argument. I'm a biologist and the amount of ridiculousness that permeates our world with the lie of it's nature is ridiculous. Unless you've got some objective reporoduceable test to determine you are in fact incapable of forming romantic attachments then I think you should hold out on claiming that one.

  • Dude, just go to a club and find some chick that's DTF, it's not too difficult to be honest, just as long as you don't come along as desperate and creepy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That's really not what aromantic means. Just because you can't be romantically attracted to someone doesn't mean you see them as objects. So basically, you don't get laid, not until you can learn to respect people regardless of your romantic attraction toward them. If you just want casual sex, that's fine. But still not without respect.

    • If I don't find myself romantically attracted to girls and only feel sexually attracted to them, obviously I will only see them as something that gives me sexual pleasure and no more. I see them as sexual objects that exist solely for my sexual pleasure and no more. Which dosen't mean that I won't respect them when talking to them.

    • Nooope. You can be sexually attracted to someone and not romantically attracted to them and still see them as people. Seeing anyone as just an object is disgusting. People are people, and if you don't see them as that then you have an issue.

    • You can try going gay too. With guys you simply ask them if they want it and usually say yes.

  • I have a friend who's aromantic. I think maybe try advertising on online dating sites or picking people up in nightclubs and pubs, places like that where you can clarify that you're only looking for sex and nothing serious.

  • Fuck aromantic girls. They do exist, and they'll see you as nothing more than a dick to sit on , as well. A match made in Heaven

    • Are you an aromantic girl?

    • Yes I am :)

    • Damnn nice, we are a match made in heaven then hehe 😊😘

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  • I think most guys are like this. Just have to tough it out. Or pay them.

  • Find a fuck buddy.

  • There are aromantic girls out there that just want a vicious penis pounding!

    Just keep in mind that most of those women are not relationship material (for various reasons).

    • Thanks for commenting, any ideas where I can find aromantic girls that just want a vicious penis pounding?

    • All u can do is approach women until u find one! :)

  • Find a fuckbuddy?

  • Is there a reason you seemed to purposely type "aromantic" is if it were a real word?

    • Its a real word lol...

    • No it is not, the only dictionary it is in is the Urban one lmfao

  • Lots of women are into one night stands, also aromantic women exist

  • Find a girl who feels her only purpose in life is to be eff'd. They are out there. But good luck having an actual relationship together.

  • How big is it?

    • 7.1 inches long (18cm)

    • blah

  • see girls?

    that;'s why you never put out before marriage... because these creatures exist (in many forms and diffferent levels)

    and asker, you should be ashamed

    • Why am I supposed to feel ashamed for speaking the truth of what I want?

  • Don't be to forward when you're with a girl. Don't pressure her or anything , foreplay a lot before getting straight to sex , compliment her , examples ( her breast , face , other parts of the body)