Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Been getting to know a guy since a few weeks, we will meet soon. We mostly communicate through messaging and phonecalls. He is a very serious guy and always tells me he wants to find a wife and build a family and stuff like that. He talks about those things a lot.
the thing i noticed is, he is very very careful when it comes to sexual stuff. We do talk about things like that but he is like i said very cautious.
is this a bad sign? Does it mean he has a small dick?
I am dating a guy and he is not sexual at all - is this a bad sign?
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Updates:
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I asked him directly. He said he doesn't wanna scare me away and that i shouldn't have to be worried about him being able to please me in the future. He is definitely a polite man with manners, you can sense that. But I still think he has a tiny penis. Cause I made a joke about size (to see how he reacts) and he immediately changed the topic lol Im probably not used to men not being crazy about sex from the first second. It has influenced me too, in a negative way, obviously...
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What Girls & Guys Said
24 39"We mostly communicate through messaging and phonecalls." Ya got nuthin' here. You simply cannot forge a relationship by texting.
If this guy isn't the most fantastic thing you've ever met then you're wasting your time.
He is sane.
Wow ladies complain because he wants sex right away and then because he doesn't want it right away. Well for your information not every guy jumps right into bed with a girl they barely know.
I can view your perspective as slightly toxic. Because he has manners you think he's not well anatomically? Women are used to a man being sex crazed that if you meet one that isn't, of is a gentleman, you all assume he is either gay, or cheating or has a small dick. Let's list alternatives to this toxic mindset. He's trying to find a wife, maybe he's waiting for marriage
Maybe he has manners
Maybe he actually wants to get To know YOU
Let's comment on your update but flip things. If a woman were tell à man she's waiting to have sex (e. g. Wants to build a family etc.) and he was to make a sex joke "as a test", I'm sure she would feel uncomfortable. Why couldn't the same be true for a man.
Maybe he's intimidated by your beauty or the the thought of having sex in the first place... is he a virgin?
he's def not a virgin. He has had relationships in the past.
Are you hotter than previous girlfriends, maybe he had a smaller than average penis or maybe he isn't circumsized and is ashamed?
I doubt Im hotter lol but the thing is, we both share the same nationality and religion which is kinda rare. And we have other things in common which is quite cool.
Well maybe the religion has something to do with it.
yep, time to move on
Ever heard of a thing called manners? Maybe he doesn't talk about sex a lot because he has class.
But regarding your question:. What if he does? Is that a problem for you? If so, you better tell him now.
Re: update: Good for you for being direct and asking him about it. I think he did himself a disservice by dodging the question. If it really is important to you, I think you need to pin him down and demand that he give you a straight answer. If he still refuses to do so, then just move on. It will be better for both of you.
Would you like for him to ask you about your pussy and how you like to be fucked and would you like to have a 3some? I mean don't get me wrong they are interesting questions. (Feel free to respond to them) maybe he just wants to know you for you...🤷🏾♂️
I was right with you until the last sentence.
HAHAHAHAHAAHA!
Me too. I was ready to give a sincere reply and all... then the last sentence...🤣🤣🤣 What the actual fuck... People! Smh..
Yup. I agree with you
There’s always the possibility that he’s gay and using you as cover. I hate to say that, but it happens.
I don't know. My boyfriend wasn’t sexual at all either in the beginning but then I talked about it with him. And now he is
Hummm... you must meet him and try everything you think is abnormal... it will be better to know.
I think he respect you. Don't worry
He may be afraid you will #MeToo him.
He looks so boring. Such a turn off.
Probably means he has low testosterone.
not at all. some guys go through phases like that
it is if you feel sex is important
May yes or maybe no
I never bring up sex with anyone. Its crass.