I am disabled person? Can I still get laid?

I have been sitting this wheel chair of mine for about 10 years. After I was involved in a car accident. I am not that wealthy, I am only a computer technician. Living with my parents since I need an assistance in daily life. I need someone with me to be able to sh*t since I am wearing a diaper in case I need to pee. But I am curious how can I get a girl? What will happen to me if my parents die? My legs were gone and I only got one hand the left (not the dominant hand but works well). Any advice? tips? Is it possible that someone will still love me? please. dont tell me lie. I already used to it.
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  • Just getting laid as in one night stand, probably not. Girls are picker and more shallow when it comes to casual sex.

    Could you find someone who loves you, who will have sex with you in a relationship?
    Yes there are guys who are in your position or similar positions who have found love but your dating pool has been significantly narrowed compared to the average guy. A lot of girls might say they would date you to seem nice but the number of girls who would actually practice what they preach is much smaller.

    People are concerned with themselves first and foremost, they want someone who provides them with something. This sounds horrible but most girls will see you as a liability. Your parents help you because you provide them with a sense of meaning in their life, you are THEIR son which is why they help you. A girl who has never met you won't see the same value in you that your parents do.

    I'm not trying to be mean, just realistic, you need to work on your personality to try to make sure you have things that add to your value to counteract the negative things. People in your situation are one of the many reasons why I don't believe in a god who loves everyone equally.

    You need to find one of those "bleeding heart" type of girls who like to save people. They like to feel needed. Try to be funny, and come off as smart. Even though I understand why you might pity yourself try to seem confident.

    In summary, it IS possible to find love but it will definitely be more difficult than it would be for the average joe. that's just the truth.

  • I don't want this to sound like I am trying to be mean, but to be honest you are going to need to find a desperate girl. The largest source of desperate women are third world countries. If you have a source of income for your disability you might even be able to live in another country at a higher standard of living than you currently are.

    I would at least look into what it would take to move to another country and live over there. In the Philippines they speak English and I have heard it is pretty easy to stay over that as long as you pay small fines. Although there are many other countries you could consider.

    I would worry more if you brought them over here, assuming you can afford that, because eventually they could more easily leave you, the moment they are no longer desperate.

    • I'd try

    • Do you have an income that you could take oversees? If so then you might want to do a search and try to find out what country you wouldn't mind living in, what areas are safe, and other such details that a foreigner would need to know about.

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  • I can't answer that. Obviously it will be a lot more difficult for you to find a girlfriend. But there are some very understanding girls out there that definitely wouldn't mind your disability, so it's not entirely impossible. I guess you just have to be extremely lucky. But then again, so does everyone else to some degree, since finding someone that loves you just as much as you love them is kind of like winning the lottery.

    • I don't know. I spent most of my time at home. That's why my social connection we're not that wide. It is easy to say that just to make me feel good but in reality? It's different. The first thing that I saw from people's face is feeling pity for my situation. I'm not that alpha, and joyful person tbh. I'm not gonna lie

  • To Be Honest by reading your question i felt sad for you. and to be honest if i knew you in real i would have love you and cared for you no matter what. :)
    Dont Be Sad , There are girls who are very kind hearted, loving and caring :)
    One Day There would be One Girl Who Will love you and stay with you forever. True Love is worth The Wait whether your disabled or a cool looking man who can play walk and run.

    • my life isn't disney

    • and so what was disney? who was cindrella? a poor girl who had no life and had cruel step sisters and a wicked step mother but with the passage of time what happened? She had patience and one day she got a prince in her life. her life changed? yes. why your losing hope? there will be a girl who can love you. dont feel disheart. just because some people are looking at you with an apology face that they can't accept you doesn't means the whole world can reject you. Different Kinds of people live in this world with different hearts :) some maybe cruel some maybe be proudy some are loving and very caring. there's always someone who will pair up with someone and change their life forever :)

    • If only I could find a girl like you :( But if you saw me in real life. You might scream. I like how you say it but after 10 years living in this hell. I'm not believing anymore things like that. When people interact with me I can feel that they feel pity towards me. Some are so kind since I'm disabled and some are just don't give a f*ck. But mostly people find me weird? unique to their eyes? afraid?

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  • I hope you the best!
    You can find a girlfriend!(not a model one)
    Please, make me a favor and love yourself!
    Okay, I know that you are not wealthy and you’re in a wheelchair but that doesn’t mean that you are useless! Have you ever think about writing a book about your life? I would really like to read your book 📖 and a lot of people would like to read your book too! (Sorry for my grammar mistakes)

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  • Escorts are always an option, and nothing to be ashamed of. If anything, They can also be a "gateway" for building confidence and experience to finding something more intimate.

  • Dude, this is Nick Vujucic

    He has no arms and no legs at all. And he found a wife and has a family. And she's kinda cute.

    https://i.imgur.com/zdN715i.jpg

    Everything is possible mate

    • he must be very rich, famous? he must be an alpha guy. I'm not gonna lie but my life is further that you ever though that him. My life sucks.

    • He is an Australian guest speaker. He goes around and give people hope by explaining them that even if he was born like that and his life could have been miserable, he chose not to go this way. He inspires people and eventually became sort of popular. He is a Christian evangelist. I'm not religious but I have listened to one of his speech and it's pretty touching. He doesn't use it to convert people, just wanted to make that clear. Girls cry and shit lol. His motto is something like "no arms, no legs, no worries" lol

  • yeah you can.

  • How much of your legs are missing? Prosthetics are not an option?

    Anyway, if you have someone willing to go out with you, do all the fun things that are you still able to do (like bungee jumping!), you know, just go out and meet people, you're bound to come across that special someone.

    I know it's tough but you have to make the best of what you have. Missing some body parts is not an excuse to stop having fun. That's entirely up to you though.

    I have a friend in a similar position. He goes to a chess club with some other friends, and has actually met a girl there. They are still dating but it looks they get on very well together.

    • he's probably handsome.

    • He isn't. Feeling sorry for yourself doesn't get you anywhere bro. Yes your life is tougher than the average guy out there, that's a given, but you can still go out and have fun.

    • It's even hard for me to have fun playing computer games due to my disabilities. I'm not that outgoing person. I'm awkward in social situation. Since I spent most of my time inside my house. I don't have friends. I am fat, ugly, half person with one hand! I'm trying to be happy but I can't hide my depression! When everyone feels pity in your situation? It's so embarrass. It's much better to die ALONE

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  • Yes, you can... many kind souls will help you...

    • :( When people looks at me they are telling sorry by their expression. I should accept life. It's hard to find a girl when your ugly how much more when your disabled fat ugly useless antisocial geek

  • Yes by a disabled girl. Like attracts like

    • it is easy to say that but that is hard in real life :(