I am having trouble with doggy style or entering her from the back?

[Anonymous]

I tried doing it from behind, and I feel I can only get the tip into her... The only reliable form of sex I can have with my woman is missionary (preferably using a pillow under her), but it hurts her legs/hips, and I get tired quite easily. Like what can I do? Like she says I am long enough, but I try to reach around to feel, but I cannot for the life of me get in into her fully... Like do I really have a small dick?

Lots of articles in media tell us that guys with smaller penises are better to enter from the back... I cannot even do that. It sucks, because it limits the movement and variety in which we can have sex. :( Fuck my life.

Please help!

[MrOracle]

I can't post the kinds of pictures that would make identifying this problem straightforward, so I'm going to have to ask some direct questions.

Doe she have a big ass? Do her ass cheeks hide her pussy unless she holds them open? I'm trying to understand why you can't SEE what you're doing, and that's the only reason I can think off as to why you can't see where you are sticking your dick, especially in doggy style, where that's one of the specific advantages.

If she does have a bigger ass where her cheeks cover her pussy and you aren't long enough to reach it, you can try variations of doggy. For example, put her on the floor and instead of being on her elbows, have her put her face down on the ground, which will rotate her pussy up. Then you can squat from above her, and come down at a 45 degree angle. You may also have to have her hold her ass open with her hands on her butt cheeks.

I've seen huge porn guy struggle with a few women who had really big asses, and those guys are often 8"+, so a 5" guy may not have much chance with a girl that size, depending on how she's built...

[Asker]

She has a mild case of lipedema... I do not know if that would be a cause for it?

[MrOracle]

Well, take an "average girl who is 5'6" tall and 140 pounds. When she's in doggy, she probably has 0.5 to 1.0" of butt sticking out past the entrance of her pussy, not enough to cause problems or to prevent you from seeing her opening. If this woman has 3 or 4 or even more inches of butt sticking out, then that doesn't give you a lot of dick length to work with unless you have a huge porn cock (and even then...). So, yeah, that seems like it's likely the problem.

[Asker]

Well, I do not know how much that protrudes out though... I just know that the angle is difficult to get, especially when there is limited lighting.

[MrOracle]

Well, turn on a damn light and take a look at what's going on. That's the only way you're going to figure anything out.

[Asker]

She doesn't like that, and we both get frustrated easily. When I get frustrated, I lose my erection, so I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.

[MrOracle]

Well, sometimes solving a problem requires leaving your comfort zone...

[Asker]

Right. I will have to talk about it to her, and if that doesn't help, I can consult the psychologist I am seeing about how it makes me feel.

[Anonymous]

Keep switching positions. She will stop when she finds the best one.

[Asker]

But there are very few positions that we both like, but they are hard on both of us.

[Opinion Owner]

Get a good friend who's hung or do some stretches

[Asker]

So you are asking me to ask my woman to sleep with someone hung? She did that already with her ex, and she hated it. Hahahahaha xD

[Opinion Owner]

Just saying what I've done. Sorry. Good luck

[Asker]

I am not judging what you did. All is well, since it was likely consensual. I am guessing you aren't hung yourself?

[Opinion Owner]

Not enough

[Asker]

Probably more than me. I am sorry to hear. :( I wish you luck!

[loves2learn]

Have her put her face and chest down and spread her legs. You should be able to get a finger in there and guide yourself in from there.

[Asker]

Thanks. I may try that if I think of it if we ever try again hahahaha