I am marrying a Indian guy needs some advice?

We met in college and he was my senior, i am American and he is Indian, on 4 may we are getting married and after a month, i am going to India, I have heard that indians doesn't like whites and there are a lot of rituals in the marriage, i have researched about it and now it is scaring me, He is from Hindu religion and the marriage is like a festival there, two months ago I tried to learn Hindi but it's not my thing too tough

His mother is a teacher and knows English so i guess i should'nt have problem there, i wanna impress them incredibly, i have met them recently when we fixed marriage and they gifted me a gold necklace (lucky me)

I couldn't make a good first impression, i was too nervous but on the marriage i don't want to mistakes, so any advices
I am marrying a Indian guy needs some advice?
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  • Hi dear. I'm not indian but live in a country where there are lots of indians if you want you can DM me. Is not that indians do not like whites but is not very common for indians to marry people of other ethnicities but your fiance's family seem very comfortable with the idea of their son marrying a foreigner. You will have a bunch of people at their wedding they love dancing and eating they're very proud of their cuisine. Just be yourself whenever you are at home with your inlaws assist them with whatever they need and engage with them. They're good people but be aware of the cultural shock when you go to india.

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  • I am Indian and Hindu. What is it that you are nervous about?

    • I just don't want to be awkward and I have researched much about it, can we talk if that's okay?

    • We can absolutely chat about it. Feel free to DM me anytime.

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  • Ask to eat some of the curry dishes from his culture if he knows how to cook XD. Or else you will probably be diving for the spiced yogurt like every meal. Lol. As some one who loves Indian dishes but whew I sometimes feel my soul leaving my body with some of the curries they are so hot lol.

    As to learning Hindu that's more of like a cultural like sharing thing. The big thing is you respect him and love him and know how to show it.

    • I respect him and i respect his culture, i have no problem religion wise And indian food is love, i can eat more spicy then him lol

    • Its great you can handle the spicy food. LUL my favorite Indian Culture moment is this time some of my Indian transfer collegues made a literal feast in the kitchen and were giving it away for free. Some of the curries made some people sweat actual puddles after eating.

  • Don't worry about anything, be positive, just trust me everyone respect and love you like a real daughter and about language just ignore this, love deeply from heart ♥ understand every language in the world. Be happy and enjoy the upcoming happiness and precious moment's of your life

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  • If you can't be bothered to learn about the ceremony yourself then what's the fucking point? You've already shown you couldn't give a fuck

    • Why so much hostility at 6am?

    • It's midday for me so feck off. 👍

    • I know about the ceremony, i said i couldn't learn hindi

  • @prettypriya one for you….

  • He’s not gonna be packing 🍆

  • So your moving to a place and believe because his mum speaks English u will be able to survive without learning the language also have u spoken to him what he expects from a wife

    • A housewife, although we are gonna shift to US after some months

    • So u will do no shopping at all or never be in a situation where u need some kevel of the language?

    • I understands basic hindi, but not much, i would try to learn it again, but it's really tough

  • Why are you nervous

  • After love, respect, loyalty, everything happens. I wish you happiness

  • You gonna mess up and it's ok.
    It's your marriage, not your job, try to have fun as well.

  • Get ready for some big culture shocks in India.
    All I can say is good luck lol

  • Congratulations and don't worry you will enjoy everything.

  • What do you wanna know? I can help you.

  • you both already made a mistake

    turn to Christ both of you

    he is above the dome watching everything

    the hindu gods are the fallen angels

    THEY ARE REAL

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/EmBYV4kxS4w
    • Why don't you fuck off?

  • You should check out youtube. I remember this white woman visiting temples with her Indian husband

  • don't you know that Indian guys have small dick?

  • Not knowing Hindi isn't a big deal, they'll talk to you in English and you're really lucky to marry an Indian guy. I wish you the best!

    • What's lucky about it?

  • get ready for a divorce

    • Don't be negative asshole

    • why it's true you're marrying an indian wtf do you expect is going to happen

    • He loves and i loves him, he is rich smart and i knows him for more than 4 years, so take you negativity out of my post

  • Indian guys are very handsome. You are very lucky. I hope you will be happy.