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Just kidding.
Though there’s more to the story than you think. It is true. Mostly. I actually am more attracted to average-looking women. Though I don’t really like to call them that, rather I prefer to call them real, everyday women, because the truth is the majority of the female population really is very “average-looking,” and truly beautiful, gorgeous women are few. And either way, it’s fine by me.
“Beautiful” women can be boring…
To be sure, there are lots of beautiful women I do double takes with and will go over and talk to them sometimes. And to be completely blunt and honest, I would even have sex with many of them, but I actually would not care to be in any serious relationship with most, no.
When I was young, all I ever cared about were very exquisite, exotic-looking women, and I still have some favorites, no doubt. I especially have a thing for women with dark hair, long, thick eyebrows and glasses, like Middle Eastern women and the character of my much-too-young sexual obsession Ariel Winter on Modern Family, lol.
But I guess now as I’m in official adulthood, I don’t really need a woman to be drop-dead gorgeous for me to be into her. And more and more I prefer it that way. Plus a lot of the kinds of “gorgeous” women guys like are not even particularly special to me. They usually just have pretty faces and so-so bodies, but I wouldn’t ever date them.
In much of my experience with “beautiful,” very attractive women, many of them really don’t seem to have particularly interesting personalities or lives, especially the ones who are crazy about dogs or cats and post photos of them on FB or Instagram endlessly, or are fitness freaks, university nuts, or very wealthy. And some of them can be even goofier or more awkward and introverted than the goofiest, most introverted guy. And it does remain to be a fact that many beautiful/very attractive women - if not most - are stuck-up and conceited and will shamelessly tell you they think they’re good-looking or sexy. Many times I got that opportunity to chat with a “gorgeous” woman, just to really be disappointed or turned off once I could see more of who she was, how she thinks, or what she’s into. And the thrill was gone.
Sadly it is still true that looks are all they really have going for them a lot of the time, and many of them still do count on that to give them an advantage in life. Despite how they want to be seen “as a person” who is deep or smart, beautiful women who are truly intelligent, lively, and contagious are actually very few.
So there is an element of truth in me saying I’m not really attracted to gorgeous women. Because ultimately who they are, what they carry - or don’t carry, how their brain is and how their personality is, can make me not attracted to them.
“Average” women are more curious...
For me I take more interest in women who are average or have what you might call a mild prettiness or attractiveness, or have looks that actually are beautiful but not considered as such by popular standards. A lot of them even have nicer bodies, to me anyway. And yes, I tend to prefer thicker women and those who don't exactly have perfect looks. They usually are just overall more interesting. When I see them I find myself wanting to know about them. I get curious. What's your name? How do you make that funny voice like that? What is that pendant on your necklace? And we usually can laugh, be goofy, have fun, and chat a lot easier. The whole situation is generally more comfortable, whereas very attractive women can sometimes treat you like you should be grateful that she's even talking to you, as if she's a celebrity.
I also think more average looking women tend to be a little more relaxed because they know that society doesn’t regard them as gorgeous so maybe they don’t spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think. “Beautiful” women however, want to live up to people’s view of them I think, so they worry about what others think more often. And although I can want sex with both gorgeous women and just pretty or average ones, I often find myself wanting sex more with an average woman, especially when I learn about her stories of sleeping with other guys in the past.
So for me I don’t really need a drop-dead gorgeous woman in my ife in order to be happy or sex-driven. For the most part, if she looks decent enough and has a nice face and a nice figure, and she makes me feel good when we talk and interact, and I can see she has some personality and a good heart and character, I’m happy.
Types of “beautiful” women people praise or who guys go crazy over…
Here are some women that a lot of people would classify as "beautiful" but to me are really not particularly special looking but are just okay:
Types of “average” women I like who people tend to look at less and who guys think aren’t special...
By society's and the media's standards, these are considered plain women or not very attractive but to me tend to have looks and figures I like about them even if they're not downright gorgeous.
Pretty face and great curvy body on this one. Absolutely love the boobs. Almost reminds me of my old co-worker lol.
I like the way this one kinda looks like Katy Mixon.
The Latina with glasses and thick eyebrows. Nuff said.
Glasses again and really hot figure. Good Lord.
Has an okay face but the brightness it seems to have is what I like along with those nice pretty eyes. And I love how enormous those breasts are. Jesus. Makes me wanna......😉
The perfect all-natural bronze Indian or Pakistani girl. My exact definition of Indian beauty. Rich, thick black hair and big beautiful eyes and thick eyebrows. True Beauty that is ignored in her culture because she doesn't look white enough.
Dayum. That hair always rocks, and that naked brown arm makes me horny as fuck. I would shmelessly ask this one for a hookup in a minute.
A red head beauty, and the imperfections of her freckledness are part of the appeal. Cute, humble face. Looks like a more attractive version of my old tomboyish co-worker.
Everyone on GaG wanted to deny the Absolute Sexiness of this chick but I stand by it. This is Sex on Legs 100%. Love the thickness and those heavy melons💗
If any "plain looking" girls on GaG would also like to share a photo or two, you are welcome to do so😄
#AverageGirls
What Girls & Guys Said
41 64Was this Take serious? im pretty sure several of my brain cells just dropped cold from reading this God awful piece of work.
Bwahahaha! You must be one of the boring, self-righteous girls disguising your butthurt with jeering lol.
agreed. and then he goes on to post the 'plain and average' examples which also happen to be beautiful and gorgeous women lol.
You sound like one of the average guys whose butthurt because hot women won’t talk to them, you so you think it’s your place to go around rating average women. And judging by how you reacted, I hit the nail right on the head.
@Purple_Summer eh, those women weren’t gorgeous. The redhead and the second black woman were, though. I also think it’s funny all he cares about is boob size.
well I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder then. but first few pictures he posted are heavily airbrushed with a ton of makeup and posing. while some of the pictures at the end they are more natural, less makeup, no photoshop or special lighting, no model posing. so if you take first few examples, take away the photoshop, the makeup and just snap a picture of them like the girl 2nd to last, they wouldn't look the same. and take the girls in the last examples, put professional makeup, lighting, airbrush as much as the top pics and snap a photo like a professional photographer - they're gonna look like goddesses. :)
@Purple_Summer "agreed. and then he goes on to post the 'plain and average' examples which also happen to be beautiful and gorgeous women lol." - You and I think they're beautiful, but by other people's standards they are not, which is why I called them "average."
@Valiant "You sound like one of the average guys whose butthurt because hot women won’t talk to them, you so you think it’s your place to go around rating average women." - Lmfao! You didn't even read the whole Take, did you? I said I HAVE talked to plenty, which is why I came to the conclusion I came to. They're just not usually interesting or have much in personality, and I get bored. Man, you really felt kicked in the vajayjay by this Take. Well, good to know your ego could learn something lol.
trust me they are gorgeous by others people standards. every single girl you posted as average once they walk down the street get lots of attention. you are comparing to carefully photographed models to naturally gorgeous girls. not one average girl here. your standards are high af
its same with guys. average people have to develop ""personalities" and have "interests"
@levantine99 well that I agree with. developing a personality is far more important then being extremely gorgeous.
@levantine99 attractive people have personalities and interests as well? Believe it or not , most people don’t spend all their time staring into a mirror.
@Purple_Summer So then why is it that in real life when I meet some of those types of "plain" girls that they tell me guys never approach them? Hmmmm.
perhaps they look nothing like the pictures you posted.
@Purple_Summer Those pictures are examples of girls with basically similar appearances.
well then they are for sure not average. you call them average yet gorgeous at the same time. you're contradicting yourself. what you want is simply a female who is more natural and doesn't focus all her attention on her looks, rather focus her attention on something more interesing. but you still want her to have gorgeous facial or body features. these women you posted as average are far from it.
@Purple_Summer "you call them average yet gorgeous at the same time." - Seems to be you and a few others here are still not getting this. They are "average" by popular standards but gorgeous TO ME. It's not hard to get.
but these girls ARE gorgeous by popular standards.
@Purple_Summer they’re not gorgeous by popular standards Wtf... only the redhead and the black woman with curly hair are beautiful.
@Valiant Lmfao! So then you just proved my point if it's only 2 out of all you could see as beautiful. You're a joke lmfao.
you people are vain and basic af. if you don't think those girls are gorgeous by societys standards, then your own standards are off the roof.
first girls simply have more makeup, more photoshop and professionally photographed. if you do the same for the 'average' examples they will look just as gorgeous. take away the makeup, the photoshop and photograph first few girls in unflattering light, they will be average too.
@Purple_Summer and several dozen pounds, give or take. Makeup helps, but it can’t fake stuff like large eyes or other attractive features. @ManOnFire I was never arguing all the women were beautiful. They’re not. That was the other girls argument. I was saying that not liking beautiful women simply because you judge them based on stereotypes about them without knowing them is idiotic.
@Valiant No, that's just it, I judged them beCAUSE I've had experience with enough of them. Are there "beautiful" women who really are intelligent and cool? Certainly. But I think very, very few are because they don't believe they need to cultivate themselves. Most beautiful women do think their looks are enough to make them as a person. You can call it a stereotype but that is the reality of it.
No it’s a stereotype alright.
"True Beauty that is ignored in her culture because she doesn't look white enough." my entire life. Heck, my ex used to tell me I'd look prettier if I was fair.
That was a d*** move. Good that he is your ex now. I experienced the opposite comments. Few of my exes said- "I won't want you if you look like the typical dark-skinned Indian girls. I love that you are light" I failed to see the compliment. I ended two relationships solely because of what they said.
@desidoll But don't they mean the same thing? Both are saying that fair skin is somehow better than dark skin.
Yes that's the thing. I don't appreciate it at all.
@desidoll Me neither. If I was light-skinned I would hate that comment too.
@desidoll Sorry to intrude but I have had a few "Spic" friends (more like associates) say that they aren't attracted to Black women or dark skinned women. Preferences is cool. Bu being a dick with them ain't. I would skin them all alive if I could.
@GirlsTonguesHOT Mayyn, I can stand when Spanish dudes do that shit.
@GirlsTonguesHOT I'm Indian. The problem is these guys claimed they were not attracted to Black/Indian women as a whole (because of skin color) but all of sudden changed their preference when they met me just because I am light and look a little "White". These men were all Non-Indians. I don't appreciate their *compliment* because I failed to see it.
@desidoll I thought you said you were Indonesian.
No I never say that. I think last time when we chatted, I did tell you that people usually mistaken me as Spanish, Latina or Indonesian.
@desidoll Hm. I thought you said you were Indonesian. What does the 'desi' thing mean? Somebody else here has that in her name too?
I remember you loved writing a long poem lol and it was nice! I think you get confused when we talked about my origin. I told you that I was born in East Malaysia, where it is different from West Malaysia because it is located very near to the border of Indonesia. Desi means the people of Indian, Pakistani/Bangladeshi descent/birth who lives abroad.
@desidoll Ohhhhh. Wow, you remember we talked about all that? Lol. I remember now that you say it, yeah. Scary how sharp your memory is lol.
Haha yes! xD
"Desi means the people of Indian, Pakistani/Bangladeshi descent/birth who lives abroad." Desi people don't necessarily have to live abroad.
some of those average women are hot
I'm just surprised you have black girls up there!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That aside, beauty is subjective. So your beautiful girl may not be my beautiful girl, and vice versa. Your experience is your experience, but I personally know plenty of beautiful women that aren't boring. I get what you're saying about certain women not fitting society's idea of beauty tho. I'm as plain Jane as they come (literally refer to myself as that) but I'm not gonna share any pics. We both know why. 😂😂😂
Surprised to see black girls? You think just because I wrote about coffee and cream relationships that I don't think black women are attractive? They're actually some of the most "beautiful" women, whoch I said somewhere else too. Hell, I'm trying to hookup with a black girl on my job right now.
Come on now, it goes deeper than just that Take. We've had many conversations that led me to say what I said. But hey, good for you mate! Good luck with your coworker.
Thank you, you are an open-minded and intelligent woman, and i appreciate you not stereotyping all beautiful women. Unfortunately this man is a lost cause. Nothing anyone says will change his mind and get him out of his own dangerous misconceptions.
@DianaWest lol this isn't my first rodeo with him so I know. You're giving it too much energy. You know you aren't a boring girl and don't fit the stereotype, don't feed into it.
@CHARismatic110 Hmmmmm. It actually was never me who got the rodeo started. You always confronted me first. I just blocked her because she keeps spamming this Take with dribble everywhere, so she's probably about to whine to you about it in PM.
After the misleading title, I thought you like ugly, fat and nerdy girls :P
Nice myTake :)
Nice take.. loved it
That is what I believe is vital -- to take advantage of your face type/shape, hair, body and combine it all to be a beautiful image
It always frustrates me when I see here "Which dress is the best", "which haircut, accessory etc is the best option" types of question.
Beauty is the combination of those, not hair and clothes' style, eye color and body type alone
I will agree that beautiful women know it and can be preoccupied with it to the detriment of connecting with them in the same way that certain women of East Asian ancestry are aware of their "fetish value".
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Nice pictures!
Haha. A cute way of not saying what you really think? Lol.
I like variety?
I was about to say, "you might be gay bro" lol
Lol.
Every one has a different perspective on beauty and this I obviously yours
Well i guess this was interesting to read.
Teach me your ways please! I don't want to be attracted to beautiful women either. They are so not worth the effort. Let the bad boys have them.
Love your username lol.
Thanks man.
I like natural women too. Modest, elegant but basic and carefree. I'm going to sound cliche but I like the girl next door type. Down to earth, funny, smart, silly and a bit awkward.
Yes! Exactly what I mean!
interesting take
Eh ok
in my opinion, people like what they like
You seem to be into fuller figures in general with big boobs while some are more into the ass or whatever.
Also when calling someone attractive you have other characteristics that draws you in as well, like a package. Could be the way they carry themselves, how they are with people, the way they smile etc...
What I disagree with this take is the generalizing part which is super immature for someone your age lol. You can't really stereotype people based on their genetic pool it s silly. I mean if yiu at least generalise their style it would make more sense cause it s active choice of them and it reflects part of they are or what they want to be...
But judging someone based on smthng he actually didn t have any control on is silly.
On the other hand, the way you look can affect how peiple treat you in general which will form your personality later on, but again it s mainly the people to blame not the person
"You can't really stereotype people based on their genetic pool it s silly." - Basically they cause themselves to be stereotyped because of their behavior in the end. And in much of my experience the stereotypes about very attractive women tend to be true.
I disagree, i ve met unattractive people who are just bitter and mean. You re narrowing down a lot as an example pool.
I've met unattractive people who are bitter and mean as well, but to me it is far worse to meet a beautiful woman who is self-righteous and who is judging people and deciding who she thinks is worthy of having her time.
I disagree, i ve met unattractive people who are just bitter and mean. You re narrowing down a lot as an example pool. also read what I send in the end, it answers your comment
Woups shitty internet made me post it twice. Well you believe what you believe I am not gonna argue on a subjective point of view it s pointless
the OP is an incel. check out his other posts.
this take just made my day!!!
thank you so so much!!!
ps the indian girl and the two after that are dead drop gorgeous!!!
Some of these “average woman” are definitely not average, they are way above.
Exactly my point.
@ManOnFire then why you call them average
@Purple_Summer Because like I said in the Take and used quotations, "average" is what they would be considered as by popular standards but to a guy like me are very attractive. Really not seeing how you and a few others are not getting this.
How do you know other people will find them average if we all don’t?
Because of people's reactions. Whenever take 2 pictures of a "beautiful" girl and an "average" one, most people pick the beautiful one who isn't particularly special looking while the average one is more attractive.
but we've already said we don't find them average. people see beauty in their own way, you cannot speak for everyone.
this is true besides beautiful women are way more self centered,
and have a habit of taking, while let beautiful women are a giver..
which make relationship more alive since both partners are giving and nourishing each other
this Girl
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and user @LovelessBirdy...
something about their face, that is like looking a beautiful face from beyond a veil..
Faces like this are so tempting, then even make me thirsty..
"and have a habit of taking, " That's because dudes are giving them stuff without her asking. Girls get used to that shit. Don't do it. Give her what she asks for, no more or less.
@DamnMan so true
Haha