I am not marriage material and I do not care?

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I am not a virgin  I have hsv1 And did soft drugs?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

EMILY
You are more than marriage material every question that I've ever answered of yours it has meaning behind it and you're asking it for a reason I can read a lot of things about you and what you've done in your past that's your past today this moment is a brand-new moment so that's where you have to live it and forget about all the other you can hold on to it because you're probably never let it go but it should not affect you the way that you might allow it to look you're beautiful smart intelligent confident person and that's what it's all about right there You're Beautiful on the inside with a beautiful heart and that's what counts you are more than marriage material I ever date you in a heartbeat

Not_Average · Accepted Answer

You don’t care, but you’re posting a question about it? Cmon lol. Anytime someone has to publicly don’t care about something, it usually means they care a lot. All women care around your age. I don’t think those things you listed makes you entirely undesirable for marriage. You sound like you’re struggling with your self worth which is a common struggle everyone faces. Did you want to talk about it?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You are not a ‘’material’’ first. You didn’t have to be Virgin. That is your body and your decision. You can have hsv1 but you can a treatment. You ‘’did’’ soft drugs but you don’t do anymore. What you lived in your life are experiences. Either you gain something or lost. But even you lost, you learn about life and yourself. What you experienced makes you who you are now. And the men who will marry you will marry who you are ‘’now’’. And you are this girl now because of your experiences. Don’t be ashamed of what you live. Your worth is not depend on that. If you feel upset you can go to a therapist to talk about it. But don’t think like this. You are worthy, beautiful and strong.

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

and? that doesn't mean you aren't marriage material anyway.

sunshineglow · Answer

When it comes to this listed, you are or not marriage desirable according to your own thoughts and interpretations and only your thoughts and interpretations!
Hopefully the right person will come your way and change your thoughts. 🤗

Honesttguy · Answer

Her:"Im slutty and I don't care"
Others:"So? Do i have to care?"
No one gives a fuk.
(Attention seeking, mentall issues list goes on.)
Leave us alone, go live your life and fuk off.
Thats sums it up.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

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Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

When it comes to being marriage material I’m sure you are & you just haven’t met the right person yet. Congratulations on NOT being a virgin & welcome to the fucking club. As for having HSV I’m sure you are not the only one that has it & I’m sure you won’t be the last as well. As for doing soft drugs are we talking about booger sugar, nose candy & devils lettuce?

Interstate · Answer

I'm not marriage material either. I have a biological daughter, but not hsv1 and never did drugs.

NathanDavis · Answer

1.- I don't care at all about virginity
2.- 50 to 80% of adult Americans have herpes-1
3.- I don't care at all if you did pot, or other stronger drugs

these are in no way "deal breakers" for a lot of people

and I am quite sure there's a lot of great things about you that would make many other people to be with you, and marry you

DonkeyDan · Answer

None of those things mean your not marriage material, hell ⅔ of the global population has herpes and loads of people have done soft drugs.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Tell a therapist because im not him. there's no question here🤣🤣🤣🍺

Rixon · Answer

So what's your question here? If you do not care, what should we do?

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Seems like you have one thing off of your list. Focus on other things you like then.

t-8900 · Answer

Men who are honest with themselves look at their own past before judging you for your's
I didn't have a lot of sex and never had an std but I hurt a lot of people, I mean a lot. I used to have serious anger issues and physically attack many people. No I never laid hands on a woman and never would. But some of the people I attacked moved out of the area because I hurt them so badly. One guy head to toe black and bluem I came from a neglectful, abusive, and sexually volatile household. I can't fault others for their past. I have no room to judge. What's worse having sex or animalisticaly brutalizing another human being, holding illegal items for evil people who would sell those items to bad people, and enforce for bad people? A woman would never be able to tell that about me because I have little exp with women so seem like a pushover. But I'm not that way at all around men because I was familiar with how men think/work. I've gotten my help but I'm still a lonely and broken person. So don't feel bad about your situation. Sometimes 2 people with a messed up past find each other and are able to heal together. Plenty of men out there I'm sure would still date you if you could be true to them and your relationship with them.

RealMarek · Answer

A lot of people who did soft drugs, have an STD, and are not virgins get married. If you don’t want to get married that’s your choice, but if you do, you don’t need to let those things stop you.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Okay, and what's your question?

Nik1hil · Answer

I am okay with 1 & 3 ..  But hsv1 is a deal breaker sorry!..

yucel_eden · Answer

I have herpes, everyone does these days and most dont know.  Not a big deal

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Don't put yourself down. There are a lot worse women out there.

Wise4myage · Answer

Nothing wrong with that at all.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Maybe you're good enough for anal. Thats it.

_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI · Answer

I'll marry ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ you anyways

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah I don't think I ever want to get married or have kids either.

I am not marriage material and I do not care?

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