I am too horny and want sex, help?

[iAskYou18]

I am too horny and want sex however I do not just want to sleep around. I am so afraid of getting sick of std or being played by any man. I tried dating however when they invite I immediately say No out of fear of them running away after getting what they want which ended up leaving me. I feel worthless.

I feel so horny that I want someone to fuck me but I ended up doing it by myself. But I really love to do it with someone who is serious and does really love me that no matter what happens he is going to be there. He loves me unconditionally but it is hard to find this kind of man.

I am too horny and want sex but I cannot the right man. What shall I do?

[RavVid]

It sounds as though you have a high sex drive but your current horniness could be due to a lack of sex recently. If you do have a very high sex drive it is possible that you might have a higher drive than most men.

At the same time you want to be loved. But men aren't Labrador puppies. Love is never unconditional - a classic obvious condition is fidelity. You don't mention wanting to love. It just doesn't work one way. A man isn't going to love you if you don't love him. Men aren't selectively bred Labrador puppies.

I think you are going to have to go about this the old fashioned way. Accept dates. Traditionally women haven't given first date sex and have waited to see if some feelings develop and if the guy seems willing to stick around.

You might need to think about what men want from a girl rather than take the view they are lucky to have a date with you. It is completely true that 90% of people want to fuck 10% of the people. So those in the power top 10% aren't so likely to hang around as there are a lot of others waiting their turn to fuck them.

So for what you want you are best looking outside that top 10%. I reverse discriminate against very beautiful girls myself.

[shanshu]

There's no guarantee what will happen when you start dating someone, it's all about taking a chance.

You can go on dates and without sex till you weed out the guys who don't want to stick around or take a chance with a guy you feel a connection with.

love doesn't happen straight away in a relationship, it happens later on down the line till both of you have the courage to say how you feel.

The next guy you have sex with even though he maybe lovely, sweet and safe may not be the guy you marry or he may even not be good at pleasing you in bed.

You are afraid of a guy basically hitting it and quitting it so to speak and you feeling used but that could also be the guy that satisfies your needs there and then.

I'm not saying go for that but what I am saying is there will be moments you regret. There will be guys you will think that are great but also end up being jerks but you will also find those that are right for you.

But if you wait too long finding that safe guy you are going to miss some of those potential good partners if you hold back

[Lowiu]

Get yourself a friends with benefits so you can trust him but only meet him for some good sex

[Daniela1982]

Take a cold shower.

[integrale77]

I think the key thing to get across to any guy your wanting to have a relationship with is they can get what they have urges for and keep getting it with you and there is no need to run away after

[Berethor]

You can wait until marriage if you so worried about being used by a guy.

[SnowedIn]

Serious suggestion: if you don't have a dildo, you should consider investing in one. That will simulate the sex and give you time to find the right man.

[MacMan156]

Well, seems like you have no choice but to do it by yourself for now until you think you found the right one to do it with. If you just want sex, Im sure you can easily get it, but you want more than that so it is probably better to get the right guy. Mean while, there are many ways to do it by yourself right haha you can use toys, fingers, pillows. at least that is what i do, sometimes it can be better than sex haha

[BradleyinOK]

Where you from? Maybe I can help you find someone. I travel a lot.

[BradleyinOK]

Well I can't send you a message due to my XPR. Can you guide my how to rise that quickly? I Ave some ideas for the situation you're in.

[Summeroflove]

Then get married and don’t sleep around

[RealMarek]

Relationships always involve some risk. One thing you can do is to take it slow and refrain from sex until enough time has passed that the guy has demonstrated that he actually cares about you.

[FunkyMonkee]

Here I cum to save the daaaaayy!

[DavidRaul]

You just have to wait for the right man to take care of you

[Blackmoonsns]

Well you're young you're hormones are going to be high especially if you haven't had children yet that could be your body indicating that the other thing is you could possibly be a sex addict my ex-wife was a sex addict and whenever she's in a relationship and they start having problems or she goes through a break up the first thing she does is turn around and sleep with another guy.

[stratford]

Are you so horny that your pussy is wet 25*7? Do you get home and immediately touch yourself to bring relief?

[Danny_dan92]

Finger yourself then. Why is this so complicated?

[socair]

You will have a good idea if you have found the right guy
but like anything we learn.. we sometimes make mistakes.. that's just life

in the mean time why not enjoy developing the knowledge you have of yourself and what works for you so you can best guide your partner when you decide you have one you are willing to trust

[tfan1]

Find new and better ways to masturbate 😉👍

[JPresidente]

Get a sex toy or a friends with benefits until you figure what you really want from a guy. Set the vibration to level 10, get it out of your system then go from there.

[Sparkie460]

Until you find the right guy continue satisfying yourself. A lot of guys are only looking for sex. Once they get what they want from you they move on to the next woman

[Iron_Man]

Ice, cold shower

[Bruceman96]

I know exactly how you feel. In the sMe boat right now. It's bad

[Stevefiveo]

It sounds like you are having trust issues. Find a way that you can trust a man and enjoy. I hope that you find someone soon.