I am virgin but some vaginal problems. will he judge me?

I am virgin but some problems I have been facing is irregular mensuration I sometimes feel stiffness in the vagina and it causes me a pain.

I had consulted the doctor and she examined my vagina with a scissor like instrument which caused me a pain and some bleeding also did video x ray and medicines but that could not help me. But lately I'm worried about being judged by my partner. please give me some advice that how to proof himmy virginity if he judges me?

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  • you can't "prove" virginity.
    any man who judges you for it isn't worth the hassle frankly. The "scissor" like instrument was probably a speculum which helps "hold it open" so to speak so they can inspect.
    Virginity is often linked (by idiots) to the existence of the hymen, which is a little membrane around the opening of the vagina. This can be broken by riding a bicycle or horse riding, hence why it is stupid to assume a lack of one (and let's be honest, how would the average man even check) correlates to virginity.
    Know your worth, and know it's worth more than being judged by another for things out of your direct control. Good luck!

    • Thankyou for your words

    • @helpfulwoman I 100% agree. I said it differently but you're right. @arrrr_. Listen to her words. You shouldn't be judged at all.

    • @Berethor For one, how is she a ho if she rides a bicycle or a horse? 2. So what if she (in general not asker) has partners before you or me. Her (in general) past is the past. None of our business. You saying a girl is a ho bc her hymen is broke is 100% judgmental. That's wrong. "Don't judge or ye will be judged in the end", the LORD thou said.

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  • If he really cares/loves you, he shouldn't judge you at all. Period. He needs to be patient and understanding and supportful.

    Now for you. Ever been checked for endometriosis? An ex has that. You got some same stuff happening. But relax if you go to right doctors, they'll find something that they can do to help.

    • If he don't judge his woman at all then he end up as a beta cuck, no man want that.

    • @Berethor I have not lost my hymn. Don't overthink. We have not been in a physical relationship. I am just scared if he judges me when I say my problems.

    • @Arrrr_ so you lost your hymen or not? you are not very clear about that.

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  • You lost your hymen? so not you have no proof that you never been with other man, it's bad.

    I am virgin but some vaginal problems. will he judge me?
    • 1 in 10 women are born without a hymen. Most lose it in preteenhood riding bikes, falling, etc. So I guess you & every loser who believes this will, thankfully, remind single till death.

    • *remain

    • A virgin should not ride a bike, and if she ride a horse, then only with a sidesaddle.

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sidesaddle#History

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  • Sounds to me you need to find a better Gyno!

  • Judgement requires guilt. What guilt is that? If I have Atrial Fibrillation (I do) am I guilty?

  • You do not have to prove your virginity to anybody. If your boyfriend does not believe you then he has a problem not you.

    • Why he should believe her? there is a lot of hos nowadays, she lost her proof.

    • @Berethor I have not lost my hymn. Don't overthink. We have not been in a physical relationship. I am just scared if he judges me when I say my problems.

    • @Arrrr_ so you lost your hymen or not? you are not very clear about that.

  • If you have medical issues proving your virginity should be the least of your problems.

  • he has to believe in you

    • He don't has to do anything, she lost her proof, not she might as well taken a dick.

    • @Berethor I have not lost my hymn. Don't overthink. We have not been in a physical relationship. I am just scared if he judges me when I say my problems.

    • @Arrrr_ so you lost your hymen or not? you are not very clear about that.

  • Dont worry
    U still virgin

    • Are u arabian girl?

    • She have no proof that she virgin, and she is not virgin physically anymore.

    • @Berethor I have not lost my hymn. Don't overthink. We have not been in a physical relationship. I am just scared if he judges me when I say my problems.

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