I am Virgin and really horny is it okay to lose it with casual sex?

I haven’t had sex before and haven’t had any boyfriend even i am 25. I have very high sexual drive i can not endure it anymore. If i have one night stand or fuckbuddy is it okay?
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Can i have pleasure with it? I really want to do it. I haven’t been kissed or touched before. It hurts to be like this.
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  • I'd say, go for it. You may or may not regret it later in life but you won't know until it's done. Just have fun with it and be careful. Do yourself and dont let others tell YOU how to be/do YOU

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    • Well thank you

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  • It's fine, just find a nice gentleman to give it to

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  • That's up to you Hun.
    It's your body. But mind you loosing your virginity with a man who doesn't care about you may not go well.
    Honestly if I was you and I wish I had done this myself I would gently take my own virginity. Increasing the size of a dildo slowly.
    Before I lost my virginity I used a dildo little smaller than the width of two of my fingers. It was quite a narrow thin toy. I once tried to use a bigger size because I wanted to take my own virginity but I felt pain and coward out. I reject that decision. See I was too naive and inexperienced. I didn't realize I could have gone through it and really enjoyed it if I took it slow. I should have literally made love to myself slowly teasing myself and bringing myself to arousal.
    Yes looking back at it I should have eased myself into a bigger toy over a few days or over a week until I finally popped my own cherry.
    After popping my own I should have continued to use the thicker dildo making certain I was use to the girth and there was no pain. Then I would have been ready to be with a man. I wouldn't have had to deal with an insensitive prick who only cared for his own pleasure and ended up tearing me leaving me spotting and in terrible pain for over a week later.
    Do yourself a favor and save yourself from appointment and a life long bad memory... If you going to have your cherry pop don't do it with someone who doesn't care for you. Take your own virginity and then if you really are longing for it have yourself a fling affair. Just make sure you are safe chose someone you know and use protection. Not having the physical virginity barrier will make your first time with a man SO MUCH MORE ENJOYABLE!

  • I lost mine to a one night stand when I was 19. I don't regret it really.

    I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I definitely thought it was pleasurable.

    Just make sure the person isn't a bad person. The person I slept with was known through my friend group so I wasn't worried about that. Just be cautious.

    • Thank you 🙏🏻 I don’t think that i will regret. But of course the person is important and must be the trustworthy i know. Did you feel anything to him afterwards?

    • Well it was a she, and I really didn't have feelings afterwards. They had just gone through a break up so I knew what was happening. We actually kinda became friends the rest of the year, but I never had any romantic feelings for them.

    • Random question You lost your virginity to a girl. How far had you gone with anyone before then?

  • Is it okay with who? Only you can decide that. If your virginity is important to you, then so be it. If not, be safe and have your fun.

  • I would posit that your physique is ultimately yours to do as you may wish. You have EVERY right.

    I would suggest that as one of the 'avatars' of the divine female architype, you are feeling the relentless insistent ancient 'draw' of the Deity's mandate to perpetuate the species. However, without due consideration to sidestep the perils of UNINTENDED conception and becoming an unwitting vector for parasitic sexually-transmitted diseases, merely 'victimizes' both your self and any with whom you intimately welcome.

    Mature sexual intimacy ideally should only in the long term provide favorable sensual life experiences ~
    Nature has deigned that it is YOU, as the receiving potential incubator of a new generation, that YOU set the terms for your companion's courtship and intimate physical access~

    ENJOY your sexuality! <3

  • Go ahead it doesn’t have to be special if you don’t want it to be you can lose it like guys do

    • I don’t think that it is something that must be special if i have pleasure, that is enough for me

  • You can do other stuff (oral, touching each other) first

  • Yup nothing can substitute sex...
    I think having fuckbuddy is great idea.

    • Yeah maybe it can be better than one night stand but finding it harder

  • That’s how I lost mine. I don’t regret it.

    • @subarugirl did u find the guy on tinder or where?

    • @MarkyMark77 I worked with him when I was 17, he was a jerk but he was hot and he flirted with me so I went for it.

    • @subarugirl nice! how old was he at the time? can u dm me? easier to talk

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  • your life, your decision. simple as that. however from my experience, sex with a random casual person isn't so good anyway.

  • Practice safe sex though. 💞

  • it's better cuz you don't have to stress about it

  • Do you think you're ready? If so, then why not?

    • I am ready and if i don’t do it i will be old and without have sex or been kissed by someone. I want to have an experience

    • Of course you can, do you have a friend who can be the lucky guy? I think that would be a better idea than giving it up to a stranger.

    • I have but but i don’t know how to approach or say

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  • I wish I lost my virginity to a hookup honestly

  • That's kind of how it was for me, it was casual sex for my first time

    • I think it will be good for me as an experience

    • I was also 25 for my first time as well, did you meet someone who is willing to have casual sex with you?

    • Not yet. It is hard to wait when you are 15. When i find someone suitable, i will do.

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  • Yup grab any guy they'll love you fuck you up it will hurt for a while cuz you are Virgin but then that dick will launch you to the moon

    • Not nessisarily

  • I wouldn't recommend losing it that way

  • mine was casual at 27

    • How was it

    • awkward, i didn't cum my first time, the woman finished me off with a blowjob

  • Do u at least masturbate?

    • I do but it is not enough. I have been doing it for years it doesn’t help anymore

    • Aww yeah. Do u have toys?

    • No, i don’t have

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  • If you're ok with it, it's ok

    • I am very ok

  • I'm in the same situation. Even had a few ask to be my suckslave, but not doing it until I'm losing myself to the right one

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