I asked him to hang out and he said probably not tonight?

I occasionally fuck with this guy. We have sort of a booty call thing which is pretty straight forward. Last time he invited me over and we had sex and after a week I invited him for whiskey at my place but kind of last minute. He said he's going out with his brother and if he doesn't drink much he might pass by but probably not tonight. Told him it's cool, to have fun and to text me later if he'll make it but to not worry cause we can do this another time and he said, yes exactly. I didn't think it needed a response so I left it there. He didn't write to me but given that we are casually fucking I don't really expect anything. I haven't texted him as when I'm also going out I'm with friends drinking and don't check my phone. I guess if he gets horny he'll come back to me over the weekend since I made the invitation first and don't think I should be pushy. I respect his freedom as he respects mine. Is it a bad thing that I'm enjoying how casual it is and I can just write him hey wanna hook up tonight? Well, if he's busy he contacts me some days after. Last time, he texted me early in the morning to arrange it but I'm more spontaneous so I just asked him to come over same evening. Totally forgot it's Friday and people have plans. My friends say he's seeing other girls when he says he's busy which I don't mind we are just fuck buddies and not exclusive. I want to express that I'd wanna fuck more frequently cause our sex has improved and steadily it has increased but I prefer it happens when we get horny both and guards are down than arranging it days ahead. We only text to arrange meetings and is bare minimum. Some times we go days without contacting each other.
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  • Ya gotta tell him that then! Like the best answer to this is either break it off with him and find another guy who can commit to you more, either in a relationship or who has a higher sex drive, or just fucks around with other people way less.

    Or

    Text him to meet up, and talk to him in person that the sex is great and you like having him as a fuck buddy because ya know who he is and you can't trust him to be clean and safe, but you want to get fucked more often! And you want him to step it up and try to fuck more often! Maybe less at night and more varied times? Like oh swing by before both of you go to work to bang early morning, or middle of the day lunch break and rough sex, or whenever!

    If he can't or won't bang more often, or if he is fucking other girls and that safety from STDs goes out the window, it would probably be for the best to replace him with another guy for your casual sex needs.

    • He doesn't fuck as many girls but fair share. I'd say I was the one fucking with more guys but I recently met a guy who went abroad and we had intense sex marathon which I told this guy about and he didn't seem to mind it even stepped up a bit to prove he can fuck me better. I kind of neglected him because I was two weeks straight with new guy but now I'm taking a bit of break and he seems to be fucking more girls. I feel we lost it somewhere. Just love his dick is exactly the size I enjoy in sex. But okay I'm hypersexual and he knows it so he said many times he was sorry but can't follow my pace. He was seeing a girl from what he told me but didn't specify why they broke it off. I am not jealous since I'm mindful of hook up arrangements. If he started dating a girl would make sense to opt out from hooking up which is not the case until now. But you're right perhaps I need a stable fuck buddy but I like variety as well.

    • He calls me "little nympho" as a joke so he's aware actually so I don't even have to tell him 😄

    • I can understand where you're coming from, and I think finding a more stable fuck buddy would be better because it's safer for one. Also, variety is kinda a hard one to nail down to me, like in a stable committed sexual partnership you can get way more variety than short term fucks because you have someone you can really get good at fucking with and get into shit you wouldn't on a hookup ya know? Shit like fetish stuff, or finding people for multi-partner fucks, or outfits or positions or new locations etc etc. Also, with just the one or two stable fuck buddies, like a male roommate, you can get fucked way more often to match your drive because they're not out fucking other people they're just trying to fuck you and make their time fucking you happen more often ya know?

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