I asked my boyfriend if he does more to bigger boobs during sex then he does to smaller is he lying to me?

[Anonymous]

I have smaller b cups and with me he does stuff to them but not nearly as much as I want.

He said when I asked him he doesn’t care for boobs and isn’t into them that much so why would he touch them more?

He has always claimed to be a bum guy. He watched Riley ried and follows models like somer ray etc where all have bigger bum and small boobs. He’s said this long before he got together with me.

Is he lying to me about this? He said years ago he likes seeing boobs move during sex but randomly recently he said he has never thought that or been into it

I definitely have enough boob size to touch and it moves but when I asked him he said there’s not loads to grab but there is stuff to grab and it moves a little during sex or barely moves during sex.

[Effably]

Well first of, nothing he says seems false or like a lie. If everything matches and you have no reason to believe he would lie, why assume he would? It is a lose-lose game where neither of you benefit.

Now if this stems from some insecurity of yours that is one thing. If you simply want him to focus more on that area you should just say so. You outlining that you like it, and letting it show that you do, is more than enough for most partners to happily oblige - and be into it.

So rather than making this about him, it very much sounds like you should consider it may be about what you want. Ask for it. People ask for a lot stranger things than that.

[Red_Arrow]

We have no way of knowing what he really thinks. Lots of guys actually love smaller boobs rather than larger ones. But regardles of whether they are small or large, the guys should be willing to do the things with them that you want. Just make your desires known to him. If he does not do them, then you probably need a different boyfriend.

[OlderAndWiser]

Doesn't matter what he has done with other girls. What matters is that you are not satisfied, you have told him, and he seems to not care.

[JPresidente]

If he is secretly complaining, then he's making a mistake. B cups are perfectly fine. More than a mouthful is a waste.

[DailyAsk]

This shouldn’t be a topic to begin with, you’re in a relationship be happy.

[Anonymous]

Tell him what you want, and offer to do whatever ever he may want.

[Anonymous]

Why not ask him to play with them more?

[Anonymous]

Do you know any of his exes or past hookups? Did any of them have huge boobs?

[Anonymous]

If you want more boob play then tell him exactly what you want and need

[Anonymous]

Have you directly told him that you’d like him to do more things?

[CruelSun7]

I don't think she did. Women tend to ignore telling about such thing although I don't know why.

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately I suspect the same, and if that’s the case then she needs to talk to him. Some women forget that their partner is not psychic, he won’t know unless she says what’s wrong.