I asked my girlfriend is there a reason why we haven’t had sex get in our 10 months together. She says she’s not ready and doesn’t know why?

She says she gets annoyed at herself for not being sexually active like her friends. I fully support her and respect her in every way possible and I never force it on her. We’re both virgins and I really want to lose my virginity to her but I’ve always thought to myself am I doing something wrong? Am I the reason? She has always said she’s never been ready which I understand but I just don’t know if I’m being to hard on her or what. We both love each other so much
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  • I waited 11 months before I had sex with my first boyfriend.

    I wasn't ready, and he asked me several times and it made me feel pressured... and once before the 11 months we did try, but he got soft right before...

    How old are you both?
    And do you do anything together intimately that isn't penetrative sex?

    • We’re both 18, and have done nothing other than kissed

    • Have you talked with her about whether or not she wants to have sex at some point? And talk with her about the reasons she's not ready yet. Just don't pressure her into it

Most Helpful Guys

  • She obviously still doesn't feel a 100% comfortable with the relationship. Which means she either feel strongly insecure with herself or perhaps with you, or with all concept of being in a relation. Gotta have a serious talk with her. I don't know man. It can genuinely a product of low libido, or it can be that both of you just don't share the same values.

  • Everyone is different and this does not run on a time table. Everyone has certain expectations in relationships. Your expectations are not the same as her's. You need to think about whether or not you want to continue this relationship.

    • Thanks for the MHO😎

Most Helpful Girl

  • She might be waiting for you to take the initiative. Not forcing her nothing like that but like when you’re making out you making the first move.

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  • Ten months? She is your female friend and not your girlfriend.

  • Have you fooled around with her at all? Even getting naked together and fingering and handjobs can be fun if she is not ready for sex.

  • It’s understandable that you want to have sex. I don’t think you’re being too hard on her.

    • Yeah I don’t think i am either, the difficult thing is “she doesn’t know why she’s not ready” which is hard to understand if I’m not in her shoes

  • She might be fucking someone else.

    • She really isn’t bevsuse she never goes out

  • I don't know I would be looking for another boyfriend if we were going out and no sex. But she might want to wait for perfect time.

  • 10 months?

    😹😹😹😹

    • Alright mate your dick must be the size of an m&m don’t wanna hear it from you

    • 😹😹😹😹

  • How long are you willing to wait. I am willing to wait 2 years.

  • Sounds like u need to say duck that an find someone else for real.
    God Bless

  • My question to you, has she joined some kind of Convent,?

  • 10 months and no sex. That;s not your girlfriend. its your friend

  • Perhaps she is saving herself for the one that she will marry.

  • there's many reasons but look if your needs are not met find someone else

  • Women make rules for guys they aren’t really into and break rules for guys that make them horny.

  • Both guys and girls are laughing at you.

  • Hmmm wonder if she finds you sexually attractive or not

  • Lol 10 months? Find someone else. There are literally billions of women out there.

  • She is a cold fish. Find someone else.