i called my girlfriend a cunt and she broke up with me is she overacting?

we got into a huge argument and i said you stupid fucking cunt. she flipped out on me and broke up with me i feel she deserved it. She was being one. I called my mom and my sister one and they both got over it i don't see why she broke up with me
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  • She 100% overacted. She is an idiot.

  • No, she isn't overreacting. That's not something you should ever say to someone you care about, especially not a girlfriend. I would have done the same thing if I were her.

  • You got what you deserve. Unfortunately (or fortunately), a mother is always forgiving.

  • no not at all. that is the worst thing to call a woman. i don't blame her for breaking up with you.

    • My lesbian girlfriend called me a cunt in text today she yelled at me in the car like crazy accusing me that I was with an old man when I'm a full lesbian.

  • Yes she is. Women need to get the fuck over the word cunt or stop using the word dick/prick

    Just another example of how society caters to women

  • You're not very far off from the douchebags who believe their girlfriend deserves to be punished with a few smacks across the face.

    https://youtu.be/aUc62jD-G0o?t=2m28s
  • It might be a bit overreacting however that's probably the worst thing you can ever call a girl.

  • If anything, if I called you a dick, would you dump me? Probably, probably not.

    But if you called me a cunt, I’d beat your ass.

  • I guess she didn't think she deserved it. I don't know the nature of the argument so I can't say if she's over-reacting or not.

  • Because she doesn't love you. Good riddance of garbage.

    • So if a woman loves you she will put up with any sort of abusive treatment huh? I think good riddance to men who are garbage which no respect for anyone

    • The dude said they were arguing anyway. Something isn't right in the relationship. It stands to reason that she probably doesn't love him. And besides, who grown woman gets that upset over the word cunt?

    • Well if this grown man had heard him say it. He may not have been able to ask this question here.

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  • Maybe you should build a time machine, go back in time and not call her a cunt. But lesson learned I suppose.

  • I don't know how old this question is but you called her a "cunt," which is a hateful term, and you think she's overreacting? If a dude called my girlfriend that word, he would spend some days in the hospital.

  • Dude you are a fucking idiot. What's next? "I broke her jaw and she broke up with me; is she overreacting? I mean, I murdered my mum and sis and I don't think it was a bad thing."

    Unfuckingbelievable that you got a gf at all.

  • Perhaps she is a cunt I know my Mrs can be a right cunt!

  • I would snap if someone called me a cunt. And I have. That would make me think twice about the relationship. There is other words that you can use that aren't so demeaning. However my one girlfriend loves it when her man calls her a cunt. She owns it. So everyone different.

  • If your relationship was so fragile that a rude word was all it took to end it, then it is not worth keeping. Anyways, most people don't know what a real argument should be. It is important to know how to construct a real argument so that you and your future partner (s) are less likely to do emotional damage to each other when you disagree. A real argument is when you use non-confrontational logic to arrive at a certain conclusion in such a way that the opposing party doesn't take offense to it. I'm bad at arguments because I have a hard time preventing people from getting offended. But learn to keep a clear and cool head in an argument so that you have an actual chance of changing some minds.

    Also, here's how to make an argument: 1) Find something that you both agree on, 2) use logic to go from that point to your point, 3) keep an open mind to what your partner has to say, who knows, you might end up agreeing with them. Also make sure not to yell, yelling always makes an argument into a fight. Partners should learn to control their anger toward each other so that they can have a happier relationship.

    Example: I don't want to bungee jump, my friend is arguing with me, he wants me to bungee jump with him. I ask him if he likes doing things that aren't fun to him, he says no (now we both agree on something). I tell him that I don't either. I explain that I have a fear of heights so every activity that I do involving heights is not fun for me, and since we don't like doing things that aren't fun, than we can agree that I shouldn't bungee jump because I would not find it fun (I used logic to arrive at a point that supports my opinion). He tells me that I might have fun anyway and I respond with "well maybe sometime later, but not anytime soon ( I kept an open mind and now I don't have to go bungee jumping but still have the option to do it in the future if i wish to).

  • I she was truly being a "stupid fucking cunt" then she did deserve.

  • I wouldn't like it. I'm not saying I would break up with someone over it though. I would probably just get pissed off and give you a piece of mind and then leave so we could both cool off. When folks fight about stuff things are said that are hurtful but they don't mean them. I know when I get mad I don't name call, and my husband don't either. I'm more of a you pissed me off so leave me alone and if you don't I pack a bag and my cat and I leave for the night. Lol.

  • You fcked up that day.. and with the wrong one. LESSON LEARNED?

    • Good for her.

  • You obviously have problems, especially calling your mom that. You are abusive

    • i don't hit women

    • You can also be verbally abusive, which is what you're doing.

    • It's verbal and mental abuse.

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