I can't have sex or masturbate without thinking about my ex and his new girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

We were together for 4 years and he was the first guy I ever really enjoyed having sex, he's the first who made me cum. Now I can't enjoy sex anymore. Not even masturbation. The imagine of him having sex with another girl flashes in my mind and I can't relax. Like, whatever I'm doing with guy he's also doing doing with her, and I just can't. I start masturbating and then the image of him doing oral to her creeps in my mind, and I stop. Then I cry. It's been 7 months. What should I do? When are these images gonna stop haunting me? It's only during sex, besides that I don't even think about him.

[MadeInAmerica]

Not sure. I would think it would stop by now. May need to see a professional.

[JoeCensored]

7 months is actually not long at all. You'll get over it eventually.

[Anonymous]

just give it time.

[Batbob]

I think about the girl I was really into all the time... it's been years, and she still creeps in... good luck.

[James19]

I think you are emotionally not over him

[Asadi]

go and find another man who loves u