Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
So this is literally killing me. The past 6 to 8 months I haven’t been able to make my boyfriend cum. I have tried everything, lingerie, blowjobs for 30 mins or longer straight. And he says my blowjobs are really good. Handjobs. Even sex, we could have sex for an hour and he still wouldn’t cum. I do dirty talk. Still nothing.
it’s making me feel like a shitty and not good enough girlfriend. He has said he’s sexually frustrated :( he can make himself cum but it takes awhile and he watches porn doing this but he’s so picky with porn videos it takes him hours to find one he likes.
What the hell am I doing wrong?
What Girls & Guys Said
10 40Nah, it's not your fault. Some people have trouble getting off. I have had a number of partners and none of them can get me off by themselves. I can get off by using them without much issue, though and even if they can't get me off they can still make me feel good.
I think you are doing too hard
If he can get an erection but can't cum he might have a medical problem. It's best if he went and got checked out
Sounds like a him problem and not a you problem
Start with a handjob... get him to show you how he jerks off. When he gets close finish him off with your hand or mouth. How old is he? Is he taking any meds that might mess up an orgasm?
Doubtful. Sounds like he is addicted to porn. Porn is mind poison.
You are not doing anything at all wrong. From the things you said it is clear that he has the problem not you. That is not normal but it is also not uncommon.
He might be jerking off to porn too much. That can stop a guy from cumming in real life.
It’s probably not your fault it might be is libido or sex drive and testrone is low so he might go the doctor to solve the problem or need viagra.
Mostly his
As we get older, we start to have problems with orgasming. I actually had to have an operation a while back that could have cut off the ability for me to. Luckily, it was ok, and I still can.
I doubt it's you. Relax. His problem is HIS problem
sounds like he wanked off too much beforehand I don't know
doesn't sound like you sounds like him
can he make himself cum?
Ever think it's nothing to do with you and it's him
sounds like he might have something physically/mentally wrong with himself. I doubt the issue is on your end. Most guys can cum pretty easy and spend most of the time during sex trying not to cum too early
I can’t even imagine this problem. Maybe he’s gay?
Did you ask him?
Tell him no mouth wash and breath 3 time's in a row through the nose and each time him the breathe out
You asking wrong question, the right question is what the hell the guy doing himself, its his fault, his weakness and his issue! You are no where for this act.
Try tying him and blindfolding him then touch him randomly, but this I mean a kiss, a stroke or lick on his cock. Maybe he's a submissive and doesn't know it. I didn't. So glad I realised. My wife ties me up and teases me, Edges me for sometimes over an hour And keep me locked up in a chastity cage between six sessions. I have never come as hard as I do now