I can’t make my girlfriend cum?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while and are madly in love hahaha. So, when I finger her, I can make her squirt but it’s not the same as when she uses let’s say a vibrator. It’s a different kind of ‘orgasm’. Could anyone give me some advice on how to make her cum.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • 1. refreshing you bagan NOT as "me & my GF" !!!
    2. she WILL cum eventually w/o vibrator but you must set up these things to prime that pump
    > 3 day all-inclusive vacation, no stress EVER and VERY private digs
    > alcohol & massage w/o NO sex expectation until she grabs you for it
    > nothing but praise at key moments, not a tidal wave of these
    > fun fun fun by day, even if out of your comfort zone but she loves/craves it, e. g. dancing, whatever = cumming all night

Most Helpful Girl

  • That's because squirting isn't an orgasm at all. Some women find it quite difficult to orgasm with a partner, especially one who has a strange notion about how the female orgasm works. But a vibrator works for her. Great. Keep using it.

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  • Maybe stimulate the klit more

  • Vibrator put the focus on the clit.

    Either get good at rubbing the clit or giver her Oral. Oral works best and is what a lot of girls I've meet love the most.

  • Girls can't cum its a myth

  • Learn the art of tongue eat her slowly and softly when she is nice and wet then stick it in her and thrust her real slow she will cum make it about her make her feel comfortable and don't focus on yourself, once she cums then you can thrust away and get off

  • Ask her she will have a better idea than anyone here surely

  • relax and enjoy she will relax and cum eventually and keep fingering her

  • Try your tongue and cock

  • I will fuck her in front of u and she will cum

  • Learn what she likes best. Learn more about her anatomy and especially what's unique about hers (i. e. a sensitive clit). Put in the work to learn how to please her.