I can't tell my boyfriend he hurts me during sex. Need help?

I can't find it in myself to tell my boyfriend he hurts me during sex. I don't know what to do. Afterwards I go the bathroom, draw water, and cry. That's not normal right? He's not doing it on purpose. He's too sweet and I really love him. His penis is just so big (8 inches and thick). When he gets into it he's very rough and I'm kinda scared to tell him "no". Not because I'm scared of him (again he's too sweet).. I'll just feel bad for takikng his pleasure away by complaining. What do I do? I'm lost. He's coming over in 4 hours and I'm really scared
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Also he was my first and we have been having sex for 1 month and a couple weeks now
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That's the only thing I keep from him. I tell him everything except that problem
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  • Look I'm not trying to make u sound weak but I'm a 13 year old boy and I've had 12 inches up my ass and ya it does hurt but I've learned from experience that telling him will just make him not want to have sex with u again. The man (or in my case the older male) is the one that is supposed to be happy. Not that u should not enjoy sex I mean who doesn't but just don't tell him ok

  • Just be honest. Tell him to slow down and that it hurts. He will understand, he has probably had this issue before.

    Have more foreplay, use lube, tell him to slow down until you get more accustomed to it. It isn't gonna detract from his pleasure.

  • He can't tell it hurt you by ur facial expressions

    • I put my face on his shoulder so he won't see...

    • You have to tell him

    • Ok. Thanks

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