I caught my boyfriend sexting another girl and heard him say “god you’re so hot” to her?

I don’t know what to do because technically he didn’t do anything physical with her. Just worried that he might like her or something tho
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  • Wow! I'm always shocked when girls do what your doing. He cheated and if you think its gonna stop there your crazy. And if you stay with him the message you sending is you can do whatever you want to me and I'll still stay with you. Trust me move better to hurt little now then hurt a lot later

    • Thanks for the MHO

Most Helpful Guy

  • That kind of thing means nothing to a guy and I promise you he thinks she's just a slut that he can use. Having said that, just keep an eye on any direct communication that he has with anyone. Tell him that if he's going to get his rocks off and enjoy his guy time, you're going to be there lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you consider flirting or sexting as cheating, then break up
    If you forgive him and not make a big deal out of it, he will continue sexting other girls when he's with you. He won't change his behaviour

  • If your in a monogamous relationship and nothing outside of that was agreed upon, I would take that as blatant disrespect. Please seriously revaluate your relationship with this guy.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That's really disrespectful. You gotta talk to him about it and see how he reacts.

  • Yes technically he didn’t do anything physical with her, but you better keep an eye on that.

  • Talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel then you two can discuss boundaries that work for you both.

  • Oh you can bet he will. Either you or her are the backup plan, or the side-chick. Take your pick. Either way, YOU picked the player.

  • Most of the guys like to sext other girls but inwardly they are usually committed to one.

  • No, but I bet he would if he got the chance and you hadn't busted him. He deserves to be dumped for it.

  • Still that was cheating... cyber cheating is as bad as the real thing.

  • I think he does. Honestly it generally doesn't matter if he does. It's the fact that he's flirting with her that's the problem.

  • I mean sexting is technically cheating so

  • Dump his ass,
    A real man doesn’t do anything as stupid as that.
    That’s an insult to you.

  • It is not cool as long as you two are not in an open relationship.
    It is considered cheating.
    Better talk to him and re evaluate your relationship

  • Ask the reason why he done that & rectify that error...

  • Well would you like to do something similar to see how much he likes it? I mean if it is good for the goose it should be good for the gander.

  • Talk to him about it