I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with another girl what to do?

I came home from work one day and my girlfriend was at my place because she has a key and i saw she was having sex with another girl. I pretty much said wtf and left and when i cooled off she was gone my gf ain't bi and i have talked to her and she said that it was a fantasy to have sex with a girl what should i do break up or stay with ber
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  • It depends on how committed to her you are and if you 1) care about her being with a woman and 2) believe it was a fantasy. My guess is that she is indeed bi but is afraid to say so because you'd dump her. If you can be with her bi, tell her that and ask her how that will figure into your relationship together. If not, I think you stay and if it happens again, dump her.

  • Thats cheating big time, another women gave her pleasure,,, ouch

    The only way this can be forgotten about, is if she allows you to join them... IF not its cheating and Id probably break up with her I Think

    Now if its really just a one time deal, I would consider it but wouldn't trust her for a long time

Most Helpful Girls

  • It doesn't matter that she was cheating on you with another girl, she still cheated on you. You should probably break up with her, but tell her why and be civil.

  • I'd say BREAK UP. How is it different with a girl went home to find out her boyfriend's having s*x with a guy.

    • Exactly my thoughts

    • Great guys wouldn't want that kind of girlfriend. Most of her thoughts are probably wild.

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  • Happened to me once and any lesbian fantasies went out the window straight away. Cheating is cheating. Most guys may think different but in my eyes betrayal is betrayal. I'm sorry dude.

  • Lol she said she wasn't bi? If it was just a fantasy she would have included you her BOYFRIEND.
    Dude she likes woman and she cheated on you.

  • You should break up with her, unless you want to have a threesome. ;)

  • Break out. She cheated on you in your own place. She does not love you or respect you. It is time to go.

  • you gay or something? I would have joined in. and you should stay with her that shit is hot as hell

    • She did ask i wanted a threesome with the girl she was having sex with and i just kinda caught me off by surprise and it was at my place but i thinking it might put a strain on are relationship.

    • man you must be gay or something, you literally had a golden opportunity for a threesome, something that most men fantasize about it but will never have and you just walked away. what the hell is wrong with you?

    • I still have a opptunity have threesome but. ot sure if i can trust her again i rather have her than a threesome

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  • Leave her asap! Anybody who finds it okay to cheat because it's a fantasy of theirs is insane. She is going to cheat again that i can tell you. I am glad you cooled of before talking to her but honestly you should have kicked her to the curb that second. And she did that in your home! You need to dump her and dump her fast. This persons sounds terrible to me.

  • Break up. Some fantasies need to stay fantasies. Cheaters are cheaters. No consideration for your feelings or anything.