I caught my little brother masturbating above me?

Question

So I'm 28, and by little brother is 19. We recently moved away from home to stay with some relatives. Currently we're sharing one side of a split basement, my cousin and her husband are on the other half. So close quarters, and basically no privacy. Today I woke up to him walking away from me, I realized my boob was exposed so I covered it up and assumed it had come uncovered during my sleep. I woke up a little bit later and caught him red handed. He had lifted my shirt again, and had his hands down his pants. I'm confused, uncomfortable and I feel violated. Is this normal behavior? Should I be concerned? Is this a normal for a teenaged boy? Wtf?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

It's normal for young guys without girlfriends to masturbate constantly. But what he did to you is molestation and assault and it's perverted. The incestuous little fuck doesn't have any sense of decency or morality. Does he have a mental problem?

Being assaulted while you sleep must make you feel very unsafe.

It wouldn't be terribly wrong if it was an "I'll show you mine of you show me yours" kind of thing if you both agreed. Or even if you both agreed watch each other masturbate. But touching or having sex with a sibling is some back woods, trailer trash shit.

Tell him that he can jerk off all he wants as long as he doesn't involve you. And if he ever pulls down your covers or touches you again while you are sleeping, you'll get him thrown out of the house.

Open2It · Accepted Answer

First of all, that you're all still living together at 2819 is a bit concerning but be that as it may, he is not a teenage boy anymore. He may act like a teenager and technically, yes 19 is a team year but he should be mature enough by now to realize that just ain't right. If I were you, I would definitely have a conversation with him and find out what the hell he's up to and what he's thinking. I also think that it's time that you start finding a place of your room. Just my humble opinion on things

SeriouslyFunny00 · Accepted Answer

No miss, this is not normal. He is an ADULT and he knows what he is doing. He's taking advantage of you, because he knows that you're naive.

I am 19 years old and have a fully-functioning brain. Even my classmates have knowledge about human rights and is now engaging on politics. 🤦🏻‍♀️ 19 years olds are in college, volunteering, maybe studying a degree or working, and he knows what is right or wrong!

Don't excuse him because he's young, he's a grown adult. I'm sorry but he knows what he's doing and he's taking advantage of you. Smh.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Congratulations on winning a  Troll  of the day award.

Guy13 · Answer

Oh my, how embarrassing for the boy. But, there you go... we just don't care when the Need Is !!!

Honest-Matt · Answer

Uhm he's a grown ass man at 19 and he's sexually harassing you, borderline sexual assault by lifting your shirt and masturbating in front of you.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I don't think this would be normal at any age, but at least it would be more understandable in a 13 yar old boy. At his age, there is no reason to tolerate that behavior.

rachel776 · Answer

my brothers did this in middle school but not at age 19

dustybiker · Answer

Of course it’s not normal behavior. Depending where you live, if this happened, it’s sexual assault.

PeteBy · Answer

At 19 yeah it's beyond weird. At 12/13 maybe understandable.

Th3ft · Answer

What is normal is that he is having fantasies about his sister. Everything else about this sounds bogus.

Agape93 · Answer

Lmao troll

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

This is common to happen among boys so who knows

Light909090 · Answer

Tell him To not Touch you But that he can Jerk Off if he wants too that it doesn’t Bother you because I mean he’s not Hurting anybody just tell him you didn’t like it when he touched you but your fine with him jerking off as long as you don’t see his dick you’ll Hear him jerking off and that’s fine but Tell him You don’t wanna see his dick but are fine with hearing him jerk off

AsaKyo · Answer

You need to take him to therapy

JPresidente · Answer

Not saying it’s right but his testosterone level is probably about to burst. It’s normal for guys at his age to be horny 24/7.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

Whoop his ass

Chan7654 · Answer

Just let him do it till he finishes. He ain't really hurting anything.

maximumpower · Answer

Repeat posting from two previous weeks.

Twalli · Answer

We like seeing naked girls, doesn't really matter who

nawtee_me · Answer

thinking about you while masturbating is probably normal, but touching you is not. You should just talk to him about it but realize that you don't need to traumatize him and turn him into some kind of sexual predictor later in life... Just let him know it is natural to be curious but not okay to touch you or anyone else without their permission.