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Sexual Health I cheated on my hens night am I a whore?
Anonymous
Me and one of my bridesmaids got split from the rest of the party and ended up drinking with a group of 7-8 much younger guys. Kate (my bridesmaids) was dancing with 3 of the guys when approached me and asked to go to the bathroom, I knew something was up as we only go to the bathroom together for chats. She proceeds to tell me the guys she has been dancing with invited her to there apartment and asked me to come. I'm hesitant and tell her I'm getting married I shouldn't, she asks me to come and keep an eye as security so I agree but we take separate cabs there as there is 10 of us all up, she caught the first cab with 4 of the guys and I wait for the next once with the other guys. Our cab arrived to pick us up about 25 mins after Kate's. In the can these young guys are flirting with me and as much as I enjoy it I tell them it's a hen night I'm getting married, I can tell that only makes them more interested and keep trying to flirt with me. We finally arrive to the hotel and make our way to the room I can hear loud music and banging sounds, one of the guys unlocks the door and I walk into the lounge to see Kate down the hallway getting fucked in a room, it's dark so I get closer to see if she's okay and that's when I realise she is on the bed with 4 guys around her with there cocks in there hands. I watch shocked and in disbelief, eventually she convinces me to lay next to her and I accidentally cheated thanks to her encouragement, an I bad fiance? Should I tell husband before wedding?
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What Girls & Guys Said
2 30You shouldn't have done that, you should've just walked away from it. She's not a friend if she encouraged that.
Don't tell him, no sense in ruining your marriage before it's even begun. You'll have to convince your 'friend' to keep it quiet.
"your marriage" Are you nuts? He needs to know and dump her. There is no way on earth this guy should get married to this cheater. Hide it so he'll get "tricked" into marriage? You are awful.
@Miristheiss it was a stupid mistake caused by peer pressure. I'm not condoning it here.
They could live long happy years together but all of that goes out the window if she tells him now. This argument is moot anyway, it's her choice.
He should be able to make an informed decision. I think many people would call off the engagement and walk away. Lying takes the choice out of their hands.
@Miristheiss you're not wrong and normally I'd agree, if the odds weren't stacked in favour of the worse case scenario.
Forgive yourself, move on
Lol accident huh? He fell on top of you by accident while he was naked, just so happened you were naked too by accident and some how his dick aligned w your push and went right in lol good story. If this is true I’d say you forget getting married. Your entire marriage would be based on a lie. Unless you let him bone a few girls first if he’s ok w that calling it even. Can I have your friends number lol
I suspect you are probably correct. This is a bit over the top and doesn't seem to be legit.
Yes you're a whore and tell the guy so he dumps you. You shouldn't get married, hang out at bars and have sex with different men every night.
COOL STORY BRO!!
Yes this is something even single women are reluctant to do. If you have second thoughts being with someone else you should break up. If you cheat, then you should give up on relationships and work at a brothel instead because if you would get with a stranger while engaged, then you would get with anyone so technically you can't be raped because it's always wanted from you
You weren't married so you didn't commit adultery. I think you should take it to your grave unless you are feeling guilty.