If she knows you are a virgin one thing you could do is just relax and let her guide you through it. Be sure she’s very wet before you try penetrating her. If she doesn’t like oral you can do a lot of rubbing and fingering while kissing her lips and body to get her warmed up. Also, start touching elsewhere before putting your hands down her panties. Gradual escalation is a good approach
especially during the first time.
Thank you, it's a really helpful guidance
You’re welcome! Have a great time and don’t worry about it being awkward or not going as planned.
Thanks for MHO.
Be patient and make sure she's wet af. Can’t really help other than that. Since you’re both virgins you have no idea what you like or what to do with someone else. Its not a recipe for success, but it can still be “special.” Most important thing to NOT do is put additional pressure on it.
Oh! Let me tell you it is probably going to be awkward and clumsy if you are both first timers. BUT, don’t let that get to either of you. My advice, spend ample time getting her warmed up. Oral is your best friend in this situation. If she is tense, it will not be as pleasurable. If you have specific questions, ask them and I will do my best to give advice.
It's not her first time and I suggested oral, she doesn't like it.
Oh, not her first. Ok, sorry misread that. Also, no oral? Omg that girl has problems lmao. Sorry, I just personally love it…more than penetrative sex. To address your concerns, if she is experienced you need little to worry. As I said, first times are typically clumsy affairs until you get to know what you like. This is true of first time with a new partner, no matter how many times you’ve had sex. Both people are technically “first timers” with each other in that sense. Don’t overthink it and go with the flow.
Thank you... And as for the oral, I was surprised too... I figured she'd be ecstatic about it.
If she's not a virgin let her take a bit of control she already knows what she likes and can help you find what you like
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