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I couldn’t get my boyfriend ejaculate from handjob. Am I not enough for him?

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Superb Opinion

  • He's probably just not used to someone else in control. Even if you've given him hand jobs in the past, sometimes guys still masturbate and get used to their own hands. Keep trying and do it more often, to get him used to it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • could just technique.
    Maybe watch some porn videos on hand jobs to get a better idea of things to try.
    He may just be a bit harder to get to cum unless you are hitting the right area of his unit.

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  • It's not you. Some men just can't climax from being done to.

  • You likely just need more practice to learn what feels best to him. Don't hesitate to ask him to show you how he does it himself or to guide your hand. Ask him to tell you what feels good and what doesn't. You may not be doing anything wrong, he may just be nervous.

  • Some guys have a problem cumming from a hj or bj. I don't but some guys do.

  • He’s used to his hand. Listen to him, he might say grip tighter or go slower or faster. Also use lube 😉👍

  • Umm guys usually love a handjob I certainly do. Maybe try some lube? Also ask him to show you how he does it so you know how he likes it? How old is he?

    Maybe he already had jerked off a few times before u gave him the hj? Your thoughts?

  • Here's a good hand job tip to get him to cum, put it in your mouth👍

  • There could be a slew of reasons why. Tired, distracted, old injury, life's worries.

  • No some guys can't cum when a girl gives him. a handjob and most guys don't like handjobs because if they wanted a handjob they do it themselves. It nothing have to do with you he probably rather have a blowjob or actual sex. Maybe if you dress up sexy or naked and use some lotion and dirty talk begging for him to cum then he most likely cum. It it just stroking him you have to get into his physic and mind also.

  • Performance anxiety probably

  • Probably isn't turned on by hand jobs. I'm like that.. never was my thing.

  • Not at all. You just don't know his dick yet like he does.

  • probably has nothing to do with you

  • Ehh, could be emotions. He’s not feeling well. Could be porn addiction and he’s having hard nut offs.

  • A handjob takes some skill. The best way to learn how to give one is to watch him masturbate. That way you know what he likes.

  • It’s hard for some to cum that way

  • maybe... do it faster and focus on the head

  • no it's not you, maybe he wasn't in the mood

  • Nope. Many girls get this problem. It’s just that you should get the dick grip exactly like it wanted. You should speak to your boyfriend about that.

  • Might be other things

  • Could be any or more of the following reasons:
    1) Technique
    2) He's a bit shy, making it harder for him to cum
    3) He's trying to hold bak on purpose to save it for sex

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