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I'd like to ask about sexting partner dynamics and how long do you usually sext a same person for?

I've only ever sexted 'one-off' online (usually with people in different countries) and never had an actual sexting partner. I recently decided to sext a few people off the site on Snapchat and it's my first time having actual sexting partnerS.
1. I've never really initiated sexting (usually the guy would text me first) and I wonder if this off-putting in general, or are guys okay with just seeking out their sext partners when they feel like?

2. I've tried some small talk with my sext partners and sometimes they go okay but a lot of times I feel like it's really dry/awkward so I don't really push for small talk. What do you think about small talk with your sexting partner?

3. Say for instance, a guy likes sending voice notes and has expressed interest in hearing me too, would he lose interest if i actually don't plan on ever sending a voice note? (I'm kinda uncomfortable letting someone online hear my voice)

4. What generally makes you lose interest in sexting someone?

5. I know this is a pretty absurd question by some standards but generally, would you be okay with your sext partner having other sext partners?

Please don't be mean to me with your answers. It's my first time having sexting partners and I'm just really curious bout the dynamics of it all.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well Hun really sexting partners are not fun... They only want sex and boys are boring otherwise!

    From being a mistress they don't want small talk but want to rant on and on! They only want sex but want you exclusively!

    So I have normal relationships outside my work and work relationships and sexting.

    Really it is way better to sext another girl cause we also talk about everything too! Not just sex but what dress we loved shopping!

    So go for it girl! 1 just let them ask for nudes it's so easy to just get talking kisses and they scream nudes! Softly erp to them talk romantic sweet pet them scream nudes!

    2only small talk with girls! Guys online only want pussy cause we all your giving it! They only see you as sex not a women!

    3 yes they do get dumb about that! Often I pre-recorded something teasing and only say that I'll talk once! But mostly they want you moaning talking dirty and whining for them. Hate my voice too but...

    4 interest is lost when you want something they don't sexually! Texting a guy he only wants feet tall or anal... When you want anything else but what they want they instantly loser interest!

    5 Never let them know you have other sexting partners! Men get so dumb and jealous and dangerous!

    As girls course we have dozens and accept the other women we sext with does also but guys you need to seem single!

    Lol never share I'm married when mistress is working unless with a women cause they love sharing and hearing how my man pinned me down kissed my neck and rubbed my thighs with his leg before carrying me to bed!

  • Oh damn. So yeah I am just not good at it. My ex girlfriend loved to do that and I always found it really awkward. I never could get into it and found myself laughing (sometimes at myself) during that stuff. I tried to humor her but it never did anything for me. It was not a turn on like it is supposed to be. I guess she enjoyed it but I always preferred in person contact and conversation even if of a sexual nature.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, I have an online friends with benefits so to say. Big distance, we still do a lot (and meet when we can).

    Our 'relationship' so to say is easy. We love each others' body, can get each other hot&bothered with a few words, or a teaser pic, so the party can start even from a normal convo.

    The key is that we are friends otherwise and we do stuff together (watch movies online/funny videos/game together/just talk).

    But it always ends up in the same way. And I find it to work really well. I don't know if she does anything with others, and I don't care either. She doesn't care about what I do with others either.

    If you have further questions, send a PM, I am happy to help.

    Funny thing, I met her on this site :D

  • I like sexting with strangers and people I know but strangers is easier to open up. Learning about new sexual experiences, kinks and fantasies. I don't mind starting the discussion first or if they do, just natural. I like small talk every now and then but of course I prefer sexual conversations.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I only sext my real life dating partner

  • Well I do Sametimes... not necessarily with the same person

  • Tbh i had a lot sexting and im sure im pro in it hehe
    May we talk on snap and i may help u with it?
    Just if u want and dont mind ^_^

    • I sexted with a girl for four years lol

    • If u wanna sext in this app not on snap just follow me

  • Can I DM you

  • usually once or twice with online guys, we just get each other off. guys in real life i will sext long-term

    • Hey do you like sexting?

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