I'd you found out your partner had been in a gangbang, how would that make you feel?

Would it not bother you? make you jealous? Insecure? Alter your opinion of them?
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This was prompted because I recently watched 'Chasing Amy'. And in that example specifically, it's not only the fact that she engaged in, I think it was a MMf three-way, but she lied to her partner about it. It seems like the lying about it would affect you more.
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  • A threesome is one thing, a gang bang is something else. I do not disrespect a gal at all for having a threesome, and am not concerned about that. A gangbang is still her right if she wants to, but could be more touchy in how it affects your life. If just one man recognizes her from a gang bang and mentions it to people you know, it can be terrible. If you are a church goer, you might get tossed out of the church. If you work for a public institution, you might find yourself fast tracked to not having a job. A lot of baggage goes along with that. As just a partner, it would not really bother me that much, but for anything more serious there would be many problems.

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  • Not to concerned.

    Really depends on what people think a gangbang is.

    A 3 some or even 4 some is not a gang bang.

    But it depends on the lying bit, not telling is different to lying.

    I am open with my past and the fact I like BDSM etc, but it’s not something I declare straight off, as some jump to wrong idea.

    Lying no matter is wrong, unless it’s the type of lie where the truth that protects.

    Example, I dated a girl that when I asked her if she had group sex before, she said no. Later on in relationship she opened up that she had been raped as a teenager buy a group of guys. So yes that first ask and answer was a lie but a rather good reason for it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Lying is never a good thing, and that film did a really good job of depicting the consequences, in terms of undermining the trust in the relationship.

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  • If it was before we dated than I would feel awkward about it and insecure and jealous. If she did it behind my back I would be really mad of course and call it quits. I ould only let her do it if I was involved and people I could really trust but it would have to be mostly girls I think I would get very possessive if another man was there.

  • Mine has ben in multiple gangbangs

    I dont care.
    And it doesn't bother me.
    because she's mine now.

    she was honest about the whole thing. And told me about her past.

    So i dont have any issues with it,

    i dont care what she does or did with other men. As long as she doesn't lie about it or go behind my back,

  • It would bother me. Not necessarily a deal breaker, but certainly is not something desirable.

  • I thought that movie was terrible, but to the point- I wouldn't mind if my girl was in a gb.. in fact it tells me that she's open to experimentation in bed, two thumbs up :)

  • If its before she dated me its fine. If its while she's dating me I'd probably talk to her about it but not immediately break up with her.

    • I suppose it depends on the relationship dynamic. If it was completely out of the blue and we had no arrangement, than I'd probably have to end it there.

  • It depends on when and what were the circumstances.
    The act is a small part. Motive and intent are huge.
    In some cases I'd be delighted and want all the raunchy details as we fuck.
    In other cases I'd probably be disappointed.
    Context...

  • I would lose a huge amount of respect for her and would start treating her more like a whore.

  • Yes, some things are better not shared

  • I would be intrigued.. when, where, why and a bunch of others... insecure? no, why would I. everyone has a history, some more or less interesting

  • Excited and pumped up for whats to cum

  • If it happened before I knew her, I wouldn't care. If it happened after we got together, I would dump her.

  • Gang raped? Did she participated willingly? As her fantasy fetish, if she did, she enjoyed it?

  • whatss a gangbangg

  • I would consider her a whore.

  • i would say lets try it together

  • I won't be very to find out that partner was ever involved in gangbang.

  • Its ok for men since I've been in gangbangs too

    • For me*

    • That's interesting, how did it come about. It doesn't seem like the kind of thing to occur spontaneously

    • Yes it doesn’t just occur you gotta meet people i basically went to a social media app and i said y’all anybody wanna have a threesome and i am a female and i want two males and a guy hit me up fast he said it’ll be me and my friend and that’s how it started and how it went from threesomes to gangbangs

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  • I knew someone who did 8 BBCs gangbang creampies and all 8 guy finished in her pussy and she finally got knocked up 🤷🏻‍♂️