I didn't bleed and it didn't hurt when I post my virginity? Is this a sign that my vagina is wide or loose? Serious honest answers please?

[Anonymous]

I lost my virginity when I was 16 to a guy who was a couple years older than me. (We are still together) Months prior to me losing my virginity, he fingered me a lot. The first few times he fingered me, it hurt a bit and there was some light bleeding afterwards, but not a lot. But he was always super gentle with me and gave me orgasms and worked me up to taking his dick. On the night I finally lost my virginity, i was super ready for sex. And he teased me and we did lots and lots of foreplay. He knew what he was doing. I had stories from other girls saying that losing your virginity hurts really bad and that you bleed, so I was preparing for the worst. But that night, losing my virginity didn't really hurt. In fact, it felt really good and there was no blood.. there was a bit of pain when he first put it in, but after it went in, all I felt was pleasure. I know this is a good thing, that I had a good first experience and no blood, but the majority of girls experience pain and bleeding. If I didn't experience any of that, is that a sign that my vagina is bigger than average? Or that the muscles down there aren't as toned as most girls are?

[JMarston2]

I think it's great that you were able to enjoy sex right away. It sounds like your partner was patient which would have really helped.

When i have sex with my girlfriend, we take a lot of time to get her really aroused and wet, which allows just to have really comfortable sex. If we don't take the time it can be painful for her because she is too tight and dry.

When i first started having sex I didn't realise this, and would try put in too early and it would not go in easily. The vagina relaxes and gets wet with arousal and stimulation.

Your vagina is perfect

[Asker]

So it doesn't mean that I'm looser than average since I didn't bleed or hurt when i oost my virginity? I can fit 2 fingers, but my boyfriend had tried three. When he tried, he had to bunch them together, not have them side by side. And they only went in to the middle knuckle. Does that sound bigger than average?

[JMarston2]

No it definitely doesn't mean you're looser than average. When my girlfriend is aroused i can fit 3 fingers up to the knuckles (same as you), and i think it's so hot. If we're just getting in to it, i often cannot fit more than one. I slowly put one finger in and get her as wet as possible with my mouth. Then i can build up to 3. If she is really horny i can just pull her pants down and put three fingers straight in and it's comfortable and she really enjoys it. If you want any more detail please message me as i don't want to say to much publicly while I'm not anonymous

[Twalli]

My girlfriend didn't expierence pain or bleeding either, some girls don't

[Asker]

It doesn't mean mean I'm loose or wide?

[Twalli]

No. You might be looser than other girls, but if a girl is too tight it's possible for both partners to not enjoy the sex

[Asker]

So I may be looser because I didn't bleed or have pain the first time?

[Asker]

I can only fit 3 fingers up to the middle of the finger, but the fingers have to be bunched together, they can't just be side by side. Does that sound looser than average?

[Asker]

What makes it sound like I'm looser than other girls? I'm just curious. Lol

[Twalli]

Nothing, but I have heard if so m. j e people who say sex is painful due to how tight her pussy is. You are looser than those people, but I would need to have sex with several more people and you to be exact on that. My girlfriend is only thr third girl I have had sex with. Her first time was my third time.

[Asker]

My boyfriend says I'm tighter than average, but I don't know if he's just trying to make me feel better or not. But since he stopped masturbating so rough, he can come during sex, so I guess the reason he couldnt cum wasn't because I was loose?

[Twalli]

No, it's hard without a decent understanding of science and exactly how a guy masturbates to understand the long term effects on intimacy it can have.

[ushagomez]

It was the same for me and no it doesn’t mean you are different in any way. I guess we were both lucky to have wonderful first times.

[Anonymous]

You’re stressing over nothing. It’s different for everyone

[Asadi]

You actually lost ur virginity earlier by fingering

[Asadi]

not every girl bleeds too much , neither it pains much if u are relaxed and enjoying

[Asker]

Yeah. I was pretty comfortable with him by the time we had sex. We had dated for a few months before we had sex. And he fingered me quite a bit to get me ready to lose my virginity months later. And the night I lost my virginity, I was pretty turned on and there was a lot of foreplay. So I guess this doesn't mean I'm loose or that my vagina is wider than normal?

[Asadi]

No , not at all , if ur vagina were that wide than u wouldn't have enjoyed much , further , ur boyfriend would also complain of not feeling anything

[Asadi]

its not something to care about really , Enjoy ur sex:)

[Asker]

Well, I wasn't able to make him cum for a while when we first started having sex.. and I thought it was because i was loose, but my boyfriend said that he wasn't able to cum during sex because he masturbated too much. When he stopped masturbating a lot, he started coming during sex. Can too much masturbation actually make a guy not cum during sex?

[Asker]

He used to masturbate with a hard grip. He stopped doing it so rough and now he comes.

[Twalli]

Yes, because the speed and grip of your hand on your penis is not exactly the same as it is with sex.

[Asker]

@Twalli so that's why I couldn't make him cum? I used to masturbate with him and when he would get close, he would grip it hard and rub extremely fast. I think that's called death grip?

[Asadi]

yeah masturbation can cause problem in reaching orgasms for many men , it was not because of your vagina , how many fingers u can insert in ur vagina?

[Asker]

Usually just 2. But if he bunches 3 fingers together, he can get them in, but he is only able to get them in to the middle of his fingers.

[Asadi]

2 fingers are fine then , loose vagina can get in upto 4 fingers easily

[Asker]

Okay. Well, I can only fit 3 fingers up to the middle middle knuckle. And the fingers have to be bunched up, they can't be side by side. That would be too much.

[Asadi]

that's pretty good , it shows that ur vagina is tight not loose, its surely not ur fault that he couldn't cum