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I didn't tell the man I would marry that I had sex with twenty-five men in the past. Did I do it right?

If he found out about my ex-boyfriends, he wouldn't marry me.
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  • Technically your history isn't anybody's business.
    I'm sure that your boyfriend knows that you are not a virgin.
    He likes you and that's it. He shouldn't be so prudish, but he is, so keep it to yourself.
    I went with a girl that had over 30 guys and I knew it and I still wanted her, she was a great girl.

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  • It's probably better to tell him. Not sure how someone would react to that kind of news though. As long as you didn't pick up any pregnancies or STDs it's not something I think is absolutely nessisary to discuss. I would hope you have been tested before you had sex with you husband.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You shouldn’t hide something like that. He has every right to know.. I get it you have had some partners but that is a LOT, I’m not innocent I’ve had sex and slept with one guy and given oral to 3 but that’s a lot of people, he deserves to know.

  • Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

    • Is your job at Gag to write this under every question?

    • No, only when I see and consider something to be complete and utter nonsense.

    • Thank you for the MHGirl.

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  • I think that's totally up to you just like I think it's totally up to him what he tells you you are clean your healthy that's all it matters he doesn't need to know your past you starting a brand new day so it's up to you whether you do or did you ask him about his past

  • Your past is your past and he does not need to know details. Has he had sex with other girls before he met you?

  • If he wouldn't marry you because of that, he isn't worth marrying.

  • Honesty is the best foundation. It didn't have to be specific, but you shouldn't hide your past.

  • i guess you have to do what you think is right but if i was the guy, i would like to know though with me, it wouldn't bother me at all

  • Your a shit person would u be happy if he slept with your mum and never told you

  • Well... if he's still not happy with your sexual game, then you should be ashamed of yourself and for him.

  • Well, I've never asked or been asked about the number of women I've had sex with, so not telling him isn't a problem unless he asked you and you weren't honest or if you didn't volunteer it knowing he wanted or needed to know.

  • It's not right to keep the truth from someone just so you can have your way

  • Oh if that’s not something he’s cool with and you withheld that than yea that’s pretty shitty of you. Normally I would that’s none of his business but in this circumstance you’re basically lying to him by misleading him be a woman and be upfront it’s not healthy to keep secrets from each other

  • So you still to get married, tell him now. That will increase transparency in relationship and there will be no guilt.
    Tell him and let him decise then, if he still go for you he will always be there for you.

  • Doesn't matter cuz he'll know sooner or later

  • Oh, he'll find out eventually. Trust me.

  • Both men and women lie about this all the time anyway, so I don't see a problem with you not telling him. Besides, he's gonna reap the benefits of your experience, right?

  • No, you lied to him. You should have told him the truth and given him the choice to stay or walk away. Now what you have is a relationship built on a sandy foundation of secrets and lies. Prepare for it to come crashing down when he finds out the truth...

  • If that is how your relationship is then it won't last.

  • He would be right not to marry you.

  • you're going to lose him if you dont tell him. The second he finds out you lied he's going to leave or misbehave ie start cheating or just not ever do anything nice for you anymore like you make him a dinner and he just doesn't come home because he ate out and doesn't feel like bothing to tell you shit since you didn't tell him and feel totally justified in not caring about you.

  • just tell him , if he upset about it , it means he is asshole and doesn't deserve you

    • I'm afraid to tell. I'm afraid of losing him.

  • Yes.. no need to tell. It’s the past. You could fuck everything up if you do.

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