I do not need to orgasm/come to be satisfied by love making?

[Anonymous]

[harvest]

I misread your question and voted wrong... The correct answer is - yes, you DO need to orgasm in order to have satisfaction from sex.
Why do you ask? Do you have a problem with reaching that point?

[Asker]

Sometimes I don’t come from having sex but I don’t think it makes a great deal of difference to how much I enjoy the experience tbh

[harvest]

For women it's different, yes. But you should consider the possibility that maybe you convinced yourself that you don't need to reach it because you don't want to be disappointed. What do you think?

[Asker]

No it’s still very passionate for me and I can come after in other ways

[harvest]

But you shouldn't have to. Why not talk to him about what makes you feel good? Maybe he will be able to do that and make this time enjoyable for both of you?

[Asker]

That’s what I’m saying. I get enjoyment from sex without that

[harvest]

Look, if you don't feel the need to cum during sex, no problem. But don't feel like you shouldn't bother him about it or anything like that. You have the right to cum! ;)

[Asker]

Thanks 😊 that’s good advice

[Dargil]

Most women never cum from intercourse alone and yet enjoy the ride.
Not true with guys. Orgasm is the purpose of intercourse. If I want to please you, there's oral and fingering.

[Agape93]

Big big false for me. It’s like making a big dinner for two, and only one gets to eat it.

[TayTay21]

Nope. Sometimes it just isn't going to happen, but the sex can still be enjoyable.

[recvcv]

if i dont orgasm that doesn't even consider sex, my dick would just feel weird and it would feel like a exercise or chore if i didn't orgasm,

[Femdom_Society]

If She cums I am satisfied.

[s2firestar]

It is really hard for me to cum so I don't even give a fuck.

[Pink6o6]

Voted B

[Wise4myage]

Then what's the point of having sex or making love?

[Valnac]

Yes, I need an orgasm.

[Anonymous]

Ever heard of blue balls?

[Anonymous]

I'm happy enough to just please my girlfriend, I don't mind too much whether I orgasm or cum as long as she's happy

[Anonymous]

No I don't really need it