Guys, I don’t believe in religions but I’m so turned off by bisexual men and I find them disgusting , am I considered racist?

[Anonymous]

I’m straight woman , 100% into men and I cannot imagine being with another girl. I do like gay men more than bisexual men because I find bisexual men a threat to women as they seem so tricky with double standards I hear many of them deceive women and show them that they are straight and masculine even if they aren’t?
how can I deal with my feelings? And am I normal to feel this way against them? Last thing, how can I attract 100% masculine men just like I’m 100% feminine women. What do you think guys?

[RemoErdosain]

It's your own preference, and you can choose who you date. Being heterosexual and being masculine are two very different things, though: I know masculine men who are gay, and I know heterosexual men who aren't masculine in the least. In fact, there are even guys that dress as girls and are still heterosexual. By the way, I don't think anyone is tricking anyone when they say they're heterosexual. Your sexual orientation is, at least to a certain degree, a choice. If someone doesn't have any intentions of being with someone of the same sex, why should they go around saying they're bisexual? That would actually be misleading. If someone claims they're straight, and then you find out they're cheating on you with someone of the same sex, it sucks for sure, but it doesn't really suck more than if they cheat on you with someone of the opposite sex, in my opinion: It's still cheating.

In the end, there won't be any problem as long as the other person is completely sure that they're attracted to you and that they don't have any desire to go with someone else, or don't find other people much more desirable, and especially people of another gender more desirable than you

[hellionthesagereborn]

Are you fucking with us? What does religion have to do with it? Also if you are not sexually attracted to bisexual men of any race, how is that racist?

The question is are you prejudice and the answer is. . . well yeah, because your prejudging them based upon that trait but that doesn't make it inherently bad. I mean I prejudge jewish people by presuming they don't eat pork because they are jewish, but that is a reasonable prejudice because its also fairly accurate.

Is it wrong to not find that attractive? No, I think your rational for it is weird (I mean I could see being concerned that they would cheat more because well personally I've seen many bisexuals try to justify cheating/trying to get threesomes by saying they just want to fullfill their bisexual desires and such, but tricky just in general? That seems odd), but as long as your not saying they are less then human or shouldn't be treated with respect I don't see a problem with it.

[PhilEvans]

Wow you're conflating a lot of things in your question.

1) Racism is hating someone because of their race. Homosexual and bisexuality are not races
2) Religion is far from the only reason people are bigoted against homosexuals and bisexuals.

Now, terms clarified - No, your feelings are wrong. It's perfectly fine to not be attracted to other people of your gender, but it's not ok to hate them. If you feel disgusted by what they do, that's your problem not theirs.

As for attracting people - Don't voice opinions like this one. I'd never date a bigot.

[Berethor]

So you worried that he would cheat on you with a guy, and you don't consider him masculine because he is not a straight guy, well it's actually common concern among girls.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Homophobic not racist.

[Futureboy]

You wouldn't be racist but it is a bit sexist. However at the time it is down to preference. I also think fear plays a part in that maybe you think they might get bored of women and want to be with a man. I would happily date a Bi sexual woman as long as there was commitment. May even let her see other women as bad as that may sound to some, as long as they still considered me their partner and wanted a family etc.

[Bad_Man55]

Bisexual is not a race

[ItsTheNephilim]

What do you think a racist means?

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I don't know if you're racists or not because bisexuality isn't a race. You are homophobic though, which is the question I think you meant to ask

[RoastedToast]

Well technically racism wouldn't be right here as that involves race not sexuality 😂😂

[RoastedToast]

But yeah it's fine lol. A turn offs a turn off no roundabout ways with that.

[Giggltr0nn]

Pretty sure bisexual people aren't a race all of their own

[loveslongnails]

I don't see where "race" enters into this. You're into men who love women who love men, and nothing else. That's not abnormal. The level of your "disgust" might be something you wish to address.